like i said its impossible to get her off i mind
2006-12-19 18:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do everything in your power to get her back what are you waiting for go get her.
2006-12-19 18:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME IS THE ONLY HEALER my friend. A few months ago I was in the same situation as you are, and was thinking the same that it was impossible to get her out of my mind. But today I'm back to normal, though I can't say that I never remember to the nice moments we shared together, but I'm over it now and happy with my new gf. The thing is this, keep yourself busy and when there are moments when your mind starts thinking on her, do something to keep you busy and distracts you from your thoughts about her. Another thing to do is always think about the negative points she had because everybody has his own weak points, even though she was perfect to you. And if you want to start a new relationship then you have to get out from this dilemma because now you're giving the impression to others (especially girls) that you are weak and insecure with yourself.
So take my advises my friend and try to stop thinking about her, I know it's difficult but believe me, you'll make it. Everybody here has gone through this situation, I'm sure. Hope this helps you and Good Luck for the future relationship.
2006-12-20 02:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds alllll tooo familiar because it's still happening to me.. if you want her out, i recommend picking up an old/or new hobby. And I'm not underestimating the power of friends here, but if you talk to friends about this, she's still in your head, and can make it worse. But if you do the hobby thing, it requires your focus and attention and it does work, at least for me it does. I recomennd the hobby over getting her back b/c from the sound of it, this wasn't your choice and pushing her(by talking to her) is probably going to push her farther. So stick with your hobby, and in time she may come back and she may not, but you'll at least have a clear head.
2006-12-20 02:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot in common. Talk to her as a person not just a girl. Maybe you can work it out or maybe you will wind up with a great friend and potential source of info on the next girl.
2006-12-20 02:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run as fast as you can... I hope it hasn't been to long for you... Just talk to her. It doesn't matter what you talk about just stay near her. Otherwise her friends will say crap like "**** it sure is good that you dumped that loser" and you will become more and more hated by her friends. There is no hope for me... But I sure hope you can see the light. Run to it. Get her back. All it takes is a couple laughs with her here and there.(judging by your spelling im assuming your not too old like me (im in 8th grade) You don't want to end up where I am.
2006-12-20 02:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Alex B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i know about girls ..this is what you got to do first get away from her for a while like 6 days or a week then go talk to her but DONT BEG HER !! dont ever beg a girl !!! have a nice lil chat with her but general stuff if she replys (chat back) then thats a good sign,after that try to hook up with her again (because u cant get her outta ur mind right?) if things didnt go well then you just have to get over her means get someone hotter someone funnier someone whos not her . someone who doesnt have her bad sides,then be happy!! dont talk to ur ex in that time, let her see you happy she'll beg to get u back , trust me!!!!
good luck!! but rememeber dont ever beg her or show weak feelings!! bye
2006-12-20 02:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long ago you broke up, but if it was recent then its perfectly normal to think about her all the time. Try getting out with your friends and meeting new people, given time you will think of her less and less. lol
2006-12-20 02:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by eeore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. An I have'nt seen her in three years!!!!
Its a biatch my friend. Take some comfort, if you can, from the thought that when you care about someone your feelings are real an do'nt just go away.
2006-12-20 02:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmph..sounds interesting. Did you go all the way in this relationship?Go back and see if there was something that truly attracted her to you. Work on it. All the best.
2006-12-24 01:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by idfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as though your still in Love with her Don't allow your Pride 2 stand in your way of Love, if you can fit it Do IT.
2006-12-20 02:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋