Why do some women get mad when you treat them like a queen?

Answer 1

Lets put u in the, Hot girls, Shoes for a moment and understand how their minds work.

Lets say, your best friend (Male).

Came over to your place. And u told him to go get u some ice cream. and he did it. Then u told him to clean your room, and he does that too. Then u told him to clean your feet, and he does that also. After awhile, u see a very clear pattern. When u tell him to do something, he does it. He even does nice things for u, when u did nothing to deserve it.

Live this, for a moment......................

How does this make u feel.

For me, it feels like this guy is my bi*ch. Subconiously, im losing respect for him. Even though were friends. I start to dispise him.
i will start mocking him. I mean, hes already kissing my feet. It doesnt matter if i piss him off. he does whatever i want.

Girls feel similar to this.
They feel,
-hes boring
-no mystery
-no attraction
-not fun

Hot Girls get guys kissing their butts 24/7.

U cant respect some one that is kissing your butt.

But what if u traded?

Example:
Girl:"get me some ice cream."
Guy:"Whats in it for me (playfully)"
Girl:"what do u mean?"
Guy:"Rub my back for a minute, ........how am i suppose to get your ice cream if my back hurts." [smile]
Girl:[rubs guys back]
Guy: "your so sweet, you deserve an ice cream"

Have a trading relationship. 50/50

have fun.

Answer 2

Women are very similar to men in the fact that they are really unsure of what they want. The guys who treat women like queens are somewhat predictable, and this is not always good to a woman until marriage is involved. Sometims, they want a man who is unpredictable with a little bit of a wild side. And, as others have said, they often want a guy to treat them like crap because it allows them to have just the right amount of self-consciousness. And, too much of a good thing can be bad, so if you treat a woman too good too much, you are suffocating them, which in turn causes them to lash out at you and get mad at you for this. Also, some women have never really had a guy who treated them that way, so when they actually find it, they do not know how to treat him or how to act. They do not know how to be appreciative, and so they get mad instead. Also, many women are under the impression that if you treat them like a queen, that you do not respect them as equals, as that is the reason that you are treating them so well (because they cannot do or figure it out on their own) which is really far from the truth. We like to do this so that our women can feel loved, and we do it to make their lives easier. Some women just don't want this. There are so many other reasons as to why women act this way, but as i said before, one of the reasons is that they do not know what they want, and so they get mad when you treat them good, and then mad if you treat them bad. It is hard for them to figure it out, so just bear with them until you can't bear it anymore.....

Answer 3

sometimes women see a guy that is willing to do everything and anything for them as a weak person that has no mind of his own. Other women see this as a ownership instead of a relationship and abuse of it. I love when I'm treated nicely but I hate when my guy wants to take over and not let me do things that I should be doing for myself. There is nothing wrong with a special treatment every now and then to show you care but doing it all the time might make her feel like you are suffocating her or even over protecting for no reason. Tone it down a bit and do it only on special occasions or on weekends and maybe she will stop complaining. Good Luck!

Answer 4

For some women you can never do or be good enough. It boils down to them thinking that there is a "Prince Charming" out there, and what they need to realize is, that's not reality. Not this day in age.
That are they just like being mad all the time, don't know but I'll tell you that it's an uphill battle, so make sure you pack a lunch...

Answer 5

Because they can't see themselves being treated that way. Either that or they are crazy. I dunno.

Check your timing on the issue and also check out the person you are treating that way. Sounds like you could be going to fast or picking the wrong women.

All I know is when I have a man, I plan on treating him like the King that he is and I expected to be treated like the Queen that I am.

Answer 6

Women don't want a puppy following them around. Be tough when you need to be tough. Be soft when you need to be soft. Other than that, I can't answer for women; but I'm sure someone out there would like to be treated the way you treat the ladies.

Answer 7

Don't you know all the fine women like men that treat them like crap sometimes. Not all the time,, but you know, sometimes. You are the man after all.

Besides, define treat like queen. I think that call for some clarification. DO you mean opening the car door? or making decisions for them?

Answer 8

Honey, I have no idea, because that's exactly how I want to be treated. I would do the exact opposite of getting mad about it. LOL. You're picking the wrong women to treat right.

Answer 9

I don't know why women are like that. My fiance treats me like a queen and I just love it.

Answer 10

Some girls just don't know how to react. As girls get older and get crapped on by other guys, they will learn to appreciate the nice treatment. If you are young, you may have to wait this out.
If it is a long term relationship, stop doing it. If she wants it back, let her ask.

Another fact that is well known, some women just like the crap treatment. Countless men have tried to figure this out, there are several theories on it.