Ok, today my girl Kelly, and I went out to see Borat at 9:15pm. When the movie ended, Kelly and I were about to leave the theater until her dad call ME on MY CELL! He asked for my name and wanted to speak to Kelly. I handed her the phone and She started yelling at her parents. She starting cusing, n saying f**k u, etc. Then she asked me to drop her off anywhere but home, I dropped her off @ a the library but i followed her. Soon, her dad calls again and starts talking to me and asking where she is. As i looked up to see her, she was gone. I drove over to Kelly's house and spoke with her parents about what happened. I told them to calm down and not to not yell at Kelly when she gets home. Then i said to them,"If she does come home, don't even mention about it today, talk about it tommorrw with her." I also told them NOT to tell Kelly that i was at her house and that if they did, things would get worse. Well, her mom told her and now Kelly doesn't want to see me anymore. Was that wrong
2006-12-19 18:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing by being sincerely concerned. Let everybody cool off. Give them all enough time to sort out whatever is bugging them. They'll all come around to their senses soon and then only you'll be sure where you actually stand.Hopefully every thing will work out. Gud luck buddy.
2006-12-19 18:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were sincere and tried to be helpful, but you sound as if it turned you off in a strong way. You are not going to find a person that does not have issues. We all have them.
Sometimes the issue is trying to harbor everything until the storm passes. Sometimes, it is moment to talk about it, and other times it is a moment to observe, say nothing and be open minded.
I can not judge which or what was going on in that event, but I can wonder why everything happened just as you say it did.
People and parents with kids have problems, and it is not pleasant, so everyone was embarrassed. It was all about that family, not you.
2006-12-19 18:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 23:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you try to control the situation? Do you not think that the parents have a good handle on their daughter? Do you really think that you can give them a better way of handling their daughter? Why not let her accept her own consequences?
Further.. if she curses at her parents like that and then dumps you for sticking up for her do you want a girl like that?
Yes, you are wrong in telling them not to yell at your girlfriend and to advise them on how to act. You are younger than they are.. have some respect (since your girlfriend obviously doesn't).
Back off... let her accept her consequences and don't get involved.
2006-12-19 18:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u not married to this girl so why did u made ur self involved in her familiy issue?if i were her,no matter how much i love my guy ,i wont allow him to interfere with my family affairs..u dont even know head or tail of the problem...so dont bother to get involved.right now..i suggest u apologize to kelly,n promised her that u wont interfere unless she asked for ur advised in future..GOOD LUCK
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2006-12-19 18:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by ye ye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was her problem to sort out, not yours, next time let her figure things out for herself and just try to suport her. or if your lucky you might find a girl with less bagage
2006-12-19 18:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes a snitch.
2006-12-19 18:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were probably right to speak to them
but her parents are her responsibility
2006-12-19 18:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋