Is it cheating if my man looks at porn and looks at women on the internet? Should I be mad at him for that or am I'm over reacting?
2006-12-19 18:00:08 · 15 answers · asked by nay_nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay....... i alreadytalked to him about it. i allowe him to look at them at first and i did find out what he likes, but we arent as intimate like we use to so, i asked him not to look at porn and now he does it behind my back. i asked him not to do it and he does it anyways thats what pisses me off
2006-12-19 18:49:10 · update #1
If you try to judge what sort of porn he likes perhaps you may understand him better and find out what he digs. Maybe it can make your life better if you try to understand the reason why he likes porn. Why don't you just try to observe and find out?
2006-12-19 18:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Flirtatious Wiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a male, I would say it depends on how much time he spends. I will say, some guys have a "porn" fetish as long as your sex life is not diminished by it. Now talking or seeing other women on the internet, all things being equal, is just his subtle way of saying, "Mama, ain't taking care of things at home, cuz that is why I am looking for something better." FYI, some of those porn sites may charge up to $39.95 a month.
2006-12-19 18:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all determines on how you BOTH feel about it. In some relationships the girl does not mind at all that the guy masterbates to porn on theinternet, but in other relationships, the girl indeed is offended by it. You are not overreacting, you are in your own right to feel betrayed and you should confront him about it. It may not be "cheating" in the traditional fashion sense of the word, but it is quite disrespectful to you if he knows you do not appreciate him doing that. He should really take your feelings into consideration.
2006-12-19 18:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by wii_better_than_ps3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not cheating. The women aren't in front of him, they are just characters in a fantasy to him. I got worked up over the same thing before, but figured out that I was just insecure about myself. Once I fixed that, I could care less what my boyfriend was looking at.
2006-12-19 18:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good question... well it depends on both of you ... he is maybe overreacting or you are...in this case if he`s looking once in a wile i don`t think it`s to bad... but if he`s looking at porn every single day ...i think he could use some help...
2006-12-19 18:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad at him, I'm sure my girlfriend would be pissed if she caught me looking at porn.
2006-12-19 18:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by reff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he having sex with the porn DVD? Because then he's cheating on you with the DVD. If not, then it's all good.
2006-12-19 18:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, im sure most men look at porn
2006-12-19 18:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by cloudyskies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so but some women do. He's just looking at it but he's going to be laying in bed with you and sharing those moments of intimacy with you.
2006-12-19 18:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Clyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him choose between the porn and you
2006-12-19 18:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by shan_997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋