at myself. I guess because i don't know what to say. I know he would like it but what do u say in bed to turn a man on. HELP ME !
2006-12-19 17:57:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude... it is your husband... loosen up!
just start by joking around. i just walk up to my husband and smack his *** & say "you like it when i spank you?" i am joking-of course when i say that to him, but that is how it starts. just be goofy in other moments & eventually it will carry into your sex life.
or just touching his body & telling him how much you like it... that is a good place to start... say how it makes you feel to touch it...
2006-12-19 18:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to talk to your husband about when you are having sex? (how thing going at the office, or we got the bills in the mail today) The bed is for sex and not for caring on an intense conversation. My wife would not say anything to me when we were making love. My g/f is very vocal and she tells me what she wants and how good it feels and i tell her the same. I love talking when we make love.
2006-12-19 18:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty serious? I use to have this problem with my husband in the beginning, but now...it's dirty talk all the way.lol. For me it was difficult at first because I didn't want to sound dumb and when the words would come out of my mouth it sounded so retardet! But it seemed to turn my husband on, so I just kept with it and eventually it wasn't an issue anymore. I would suggest saying something really naughty and see his reaction....if you see he enjoys it, then keep going.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
2006-12-19 18:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Island Ch!ck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be just like that...but now I say the craziest stuff. If your a shy girl you have to start off slow and say things like "oh right there". See if he likes it. Eventually it will be more of a soft conversation because when either of you say something the other will respond in a nice sensual voice. Please don't start out trying to sound like a porn star. Don't forget your still wet behind the ears.
2006-12-19 18:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem too..but u know what.sometimes it helps by doing bcoz i encountered the problem by 1st talking with him after sex and eventually i started to do small talks during sex by saying something he likes to hear n later it just happen naturally.anyway,i told myself this...whatever i n him talk during our sex..its just the two of us who knows what we said n heard so...why bother feeling ashamed..in a way it brings out the other side of you that he actually wants to know....so GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-19 18:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by rozy al bakish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try roleplay? act out a scenario so it wouldnt matter if you laugh. If you are finding it hard to actually speak then tell him that he drives you so wild that you have to think about not going to far to quickly. and that you cant do both. stroke his ego a little and make a little white lie tell him he is so good he wipes your mind blank of all but extacy, so talking is impossible. good luck I hope it works for you.
Ps whisper it out aloud at first he wont wanna stop to ask you to repeat it I am sure.
2006-12-19 18:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one like that honey. I;d go with christy's advice. You have to be bold in bed and especially smart with your words. And lastly if you cannot say anything then atleast learn to be touchy and use your hands in the right places.
2006-12-19 18:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Flirtatious Wiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what feels good, give him direction, and let him know when he's "hitting the spot". Usually whatever pops into your head is what you should say (unless you are making a grocery list or something while you are in the midst of it lol).
2006-12-19 18:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start out slow with this one. if you have problems with telling him what you want him to do, show him. if you want him to touch you somewhere in general take his hand and move it there. do this a couple times then in the end you might feel more comfortable telling him with your voice instead of movement. i did this for awhile myself, i had issues talking during love making because i thought it would ruin the mood, but i got comfortable with doing that, now i talk dirty to my hubby when we make love. he loves it, it is a big turn on. to both of us
2006-12-19 18:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by fruitloop247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him (but not on the bed) and chat about how you feel, tell him what's your problem and NEED HIS GUIDE. I tell you , he will feel happy and confident to solve it with you. May be you'll be more loving than before . Give it a try girl!
2006-12-19 18:03:00 · answer #11 · answered by mamagorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋