I have been dating this girl for over a month now. We like each other. She broke with her BF before she started dating. I was concerned about being a rebound. She claims that she cares alot about me. We've had sex at least 10X. Should I still be concerned about being a rebound or not? What should I do?
2006-12-19 17:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds a little slutty-- 10x's in a month... and you just started dating...
2006-12-19 17:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please the amount of times you have sex doesn't validate that your not the rebound person. Is she making you feel like the official rebound...ie,..sharing memories of old BF, comparing you to ex BF, calling old BF's name during any of these 10X encounters...things like this. Ask what's making you fell this way and start from there. Be confident, give all you have to this relationship if her intent is a rebound relationship then it's her loss. It may hurt but you can never go wrong when you care...shame on them not you...then move and and know you are a better person.
2006-12-20 02:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just have your relationship. You never can tell with people if you are a 'rebound' or not. I found out once that I was a rebound after YEARS, and it still turned out okay. We are all on the rebound from someone at one point or another, and sometimes we bound right into just the right person.
2006-12-20 02:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only does she sound easy, but it sounds to me like she is just having rebound sex. If she's been with you a month and has had sex with you already, you are either great in the sack, or it's just meaningless sex to her that fills the void of her last man, whom which I presume she had sex like crazy with as well.
Yes, to your question, you should definitely not see tons of sex as a good sign as she has only been dating you for a month. You're not in the clear yet.
2006-12-20 02:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by wii_better_than_ps3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount of times you've had sex is a mute point. If you are considering that as a guage on her sincerity then I'd suggest you get a better measurement.
Suggestion: get some confidence, enjoy the moment, cultivate the relationship more with her mind and your getting to know eachother.
2006-12-20 02:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with her not even 2 months and you've had sex 10+ times? I think a little rethinking is in order, because apparently sex means very little to you two, and that being the case, should not be factored in to the equation.
2006-12-20 01:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. DO NOT fall all in love with this chick before you know if she's genuine or not. She might not think you are the rebound guy, but subconsciously you might be.
2006-12-20 02:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like eachother, the question of being a "rebound" should not arise.
2006-12-20 01:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by cloudyskies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that she sounds kinda slutty. I also think it sounds like you are a rebound for her.
2006-12-20 01:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER ?DID SHE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT HER EX? DID SHE ALWAYS SAY SOMETHING ABOUT HER EX?WHEN YOUR HAVING SEX WITH HER DOES SHE SAY YOUR NAME OR HER EX ?DO YOU FEEL SHE IS NOT PRESENTLY WITH HER HER ?OR DOESN'T ENJOY YOUR JOKES AND COMPANY. IF YOUR ANSWER TO THESE IS YES THEN SHE IS IN REBOUND RELATIONSHIP .
2006-12-20 02:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋