I always try hard not to think about sex, but my mind always thik about it, and if I could not hold it anymore, I will do masturbation, I want to stop that, I want to be saved by GOD, have any idea?
2006-12-19 17:01:06 · 27 answers · asked by Rick F 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
"God" is not going to stop you from thinking about sex or wanting to masturbate. It's just going to make you feel guilty about it.
Masturbation is natural, as is sex.
Peace
2006-12-19 17:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a few ways you can help yourself. First, you have to stop thinking that sex is "dirty." Do you think when your parents had sex and you were conceived that this was a "dirty" act? Hardly...
Now you are of age, you must come to an understanding that you are a human, and humans have a biological need for sex.
Next, although you may have religious beliefs, and all respect to whatever faith you are, try to understand that NO god wants you to be repressed.
In fact, your god has provided you with two healthy outlets for your gratification. You have already found one by yourself, now you have to find the other one with another.
2006-12-20 01:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think it's O.K. that you masturbate as a last resort. If you're serious about God, you don't need to be "saved" by him, Just talk to God Almighty and ask for help to divert your thoughts and to let the truth come out about WHY you are so horny. I would check with your doctor or look for a reliable source online to find out if it could be a hormone imbalance.
2006-12-20 01:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by miki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You are way too uptight about this and it will cause you issues later.
Why would God make you in a particular way just so he can torment you? Go to the zoo. Every animal has a reproductive instinct and, yes, every animal will relieve that instinct when there are no suitable partners nearby. God made the monkey do it too...
2006-12-20 01:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Science Guy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think about good things and so far as being saved just ask God to help you.
2006-12-20 01:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as humans are driven to couple to procreate, our body's mature and are flooded with hormones that cause EVERYONE of us to have the thoughts and urges. It is not healthy to repress the realize. To realize you need to masturbate. Let you in on a little secret, both boys and girls do it, and it feels just as good for both.
2006-12-20 01:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Marg N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bible says to take every thought captive to Christ. Since God already knows everything you think anyway, it's okay to be perfectly honest. Ask God to take away that thought; hand it over to Jesus. Ask Him to purify your heart, mind and mouth and that He would remove those thoughts and replace them with thoughts of purity and righteousness. Trust the Lord, He will not let you down if you ask Him for help in this area and may God bless you.
2006-12-20 01:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Esther 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes you can follow Jesus example and concentrate on other things get involved in doing good,study the Bible read some of it every day, and when you find yourself drifting towards these things again pray for help, you can do it with help from God, but make sure you are praying to the only true God whose name is Jehovah(Psalm 83:18) these are my suggestions to you, it works believe me I have given up smoking even though I was very addicted to it, with Jehovah's help I have done many things that I couldn't do on my own!
You Need to Learn About God
To be God’s friend, you need to learn about him. Do your friends know your name and use it? They do. God wants you to know and use his name too. God’s name is Jehovah. (Psalm 83:18; Matthew 6:9) You must also learn what he likes and dislikes. You need to know who his friends are and who his enemies are. It takes time to get to know someone. The Bible says that it is wise to set aside time to learn about Jehovah.-Ephesians 5:15, 16).
God’s friends do what is pleasing to him. Think about your friends. If you treat them badly and do the things that they hate, will they continue to be your friends? Of course not! In the same way, if you want to be God’s friend, you need to do what is pleasing to him.-John 4:24.
Not all religions lead to friendship with God. Jesus, who is God’s closest friend, spoke of two roads. One road is wide and is filled with people. That road leads to destruction. The other road is narrow and has few people traveling on it. That road leads to everlasting life. This means that if you want to have God’s friendship, you must learn the correct way to worship him.-Matthew 7:13, 14.
2006-12-20 01:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is simply human nature to think about such things. Maybe if you just let time pass it will drift out of mind. I did that, I had this one nasty image in my head and I couldn't get rid of it until I stopped trying to.
2006-12-20 01:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Repression isn't healthy, if you do it you'll end up like Jimmy Swaggart or one of the many Catholic priests (just not nessesarily a pedophile). Don't feel guilty about sex, or sexual thoughts, they're perfectly natural. Feel free to express yourself.
2006-12-20 01:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Psyleet 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋