I've found nice guys, single guys, but none that have it together enough to know how to woo a woman. What happened to men?
2006-12-19 16:59:08 · 26 answers · asked by BonnieLois 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look for a guy who likes his sister/sisters. he'll treat you properly.
2006-12-19 17:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!I couldn't agree with you more. There is just something very wrong with men today. The majority of men DON'T know how to win the love of a woman. They DON'T know how to fight for our hearts anymore. Our hearts are a treasure to be won and they just don't seem to realize that. It's sad really. I do think that there are a few good men out there so take heart. You are not the only one- me and many women are right there beside you.When the timing is right you'll find a good man.
Take care.
2006-12-19 17:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Psychgirl35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life and Love is about finding the beauty in imperfections. Do you actually know what is required for a man to 'woo' you? Are you sure that it is possible for a man to 'woo' you? Fairy tales are nice when younger, but.... Find beauty in the men you meet, and you will find love.
I've wondered the same about women myself, though. But, I'm trying to change.
2006-12-19 17:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've all been raised in a fast food "have it your way" world. They want it all and not have to work for it. The problem with this is that some women are willing to compromise for just any only guy. Which makes them think that mediocrity is OK. Sometimes you just gotta train them to be what you want them to be. It's been said that we teach people how to treat us. Know how you want to be treated and start there. I'd take a nice guy over a total "dog" who knows how to woo women.
2006-12-19 17:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being a man, I'd be your answer. Though we're half a globe apart.
Your not being able to find one of your choice is understandable, may be there are so many girls around who are rather easily available to the so called nice guys that they don't find it worthy enough to woo you as much as you wish (inwardly).
2006-12-19 17:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, i thought the same thing but when i least expected it is when i found him. i was so tired of looking that i just gave up and then along came "him" and i am so happy. my good friend always said " the harder you look, the less you find" so stop looking so hard and i bet you will find the man of your dreams. i did, and we are getting married in June. he is the best person i know, and i know there is someone out there for you, you just have to wait a bit longer. :) i hope this helped you even just a little bit.
2006-12-19 17:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vielleicht du suchst immer die falsche Maenner? Da gibts schon genug Maenner wer eine Frau richtig behandeln koennen.
Maybe you are looking for the wrong type of man? There are plenty of men that know how to treat a woman properly.
2006-12-19 17:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I thought it was just my small town. Sometimes we tend to attract the wrong ones as well. It took me forever to find the man I married. I was always attracting jerks, or those with no secure future. The ones that seemed to be great seemed to also have a thing for we are helpless women, which drove me nuts. I finally met my husband and almost bypassed him because I didn't want to date, and I was worried about his looks as well, I wasn't trying to be a b.... but I wanted to be more attracted to him then I was to what is now my husband. I did the checking his criminal history, asking about his credit history, job history and so on and so forth. But what helped me most was a friend of mine dated him and they didn't work out so she set me up with him knowing he was more right up my alley, then I did. And I sat her up with one of my friends that I just couldn't get myself to date and they married as well. It wasn't the prince charming we dreamed of that looked like tom cruise... I have found guys that woo you with no intentions of a relationship. Sometimes we have to woo ourselves. Unfortunately we tend to look for perfection, but everyone has their faults. Question is what kind of faults can you live with.
2006-12-19 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just gave up and made a life with my kids. Check into planned single parenthood... If I settle with a guy, he will know how to treat me. If I don't find that, I am happy with my pets and kids
2006-12-19 17:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what most people are saying.Those men are out there , just stop looking so hard and open yourself up to all of your possibilities.You never know who is eyeing you
2006-12-19 17:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by hotchocolatecherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bamma a charmer. Bamma the intelligent man who know how to treat a lady. Bamma keep her interested at all times. Bamma say it a curse sometimes. Bamma say this isn't something a man can learn. Bamma say it a natural gift. Bamma woo a woman right off her feet. Bamma say we go out on date. Bamma say it only fair if you pay the first time. Bamma otta know.
2006-12-19 17:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋