2006-12-19 16:54:04 · 13 answers · asked by Parul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
just relax... and have fun...
2006-12-19 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? There are still virgins to be wed? How odd. Well, here's what you absolutely need to do. If you do not want to get pregnant, go to your doctor or gynecologist and ask for a prescription of hormonal birth control like 'the pill'. After taking 'the pill' for 7 days, you are +99% protected against unwanted pregnancy. If you are very worried, you may also want to use condoms or some form of spermicide, but do know that sometimes latex and/or spermicide(sometimes found on condoms) can cause irritation to the vagina, so if you're going to use a spermicide foam or something you might want to test some out before engaging in sexual intercourse.
Also, you may bleed a little bit during your 'first time' so throw down a towel if you plan on sleeping on that bed!
Another thing, if this is his first time too, it won't last very long, but that doesn't mean you can't do it again a few minutes later! Haha, just relax and use your imagination. It's really not that big of a deal. I can't believe you waited!
2006-12-19 22:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a beautiful night gown or whatever your into. when you get to your room you go to the bathroom and wash up (and down) . you put a little scent on your inner thighs. then walk out looking beautiful. and then light candles and walk proudly around the area while talking about your day. be happy. don't be too pushy. and be gentle and quiet. there is really nothing physical to prepare you except maybe some wine. seriously.
2006-12-19 16:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a see through see nightie ( you wont have it on long) put on some of your favorite perfume and be relaxed as much as you can and then let nature do the rest. It can be a wonderful night and you will have the memories for life.
2006-12-19 17:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice many nights before first night after marriage
2006-12-19 23:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing quite like it. you're going to be nervous, but he probably will be too. Just don't take yourself too seriously. Go with the flow, laughlots love long. I've been married for 15 years and we still find oneanother glorious. P.S. One thing they never tell you, it is messy, fun, but messy.
2006-12-19 20:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by cat lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look good smile and take life as it comes. Supposed to be the most romantic night of your life. It was for me.
2006-12-19 18:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, Don't have any expectations of each other. Just enjoy each other and things will work themselves out.
2006-12-19 19:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get nervous and see that you dont smell stinky from your odour or mouth. keep good tempting perfumes & be sure to smell good from mouth, as mouth smell matters. talk for night & when you talk you will get more romantic.....,,,, so enjoy
2006-12-19 21:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by MUR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mother to explain the facts of life to you.
2006-12-19 21:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever u want to do and dont be scared of any action or even a body part...........
2006-12-19 17:41:40 · answer #11 · answered by doable_rods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋