How do you know if you are becoming friends? I have a social problem, I don't feel any bonds with people except my mom. How do I get over this? Any ideas?
2006-12-19 16:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by pinkdawn 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
when you enjoy being with them
when you can listen to them and know what they are saying
when you develop trust with them
when they want to hang out with them
when they treat you like a person
when they listen to you
this means you have a friend
you become close to a friend when you know what they are thinking without asking. this takes a while.
to get to a level of good friend takes a long time. you will not find many "good friends" but when you do you will know it. you can have many friends but the real good ones are few and far between.
to get over you shyness try doing the following things
pick up a sport
join a club
get a job
ask to study with someone in your classes
tutor
2006-12-19 16:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Enigmatic33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
What kind of things do you enjoy doing? Participate in more activities like that. Have you mom go with you if that helps you feel more at ease.
If you are having fun with the people you are with ...then you are getting close to them. You should feel comfortable with your friends and family!
2006-12-19 16:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm...u'll be comfortable with him or her...u'll trust him/her and easy for you to tell ur feelings,or maybe secret...
it's ok because everyone needs friend...u should try to trust someone in this life coz not everyone bad...there maybe someone who will always beside you no matter what happen to you...to hear u and to share ur feelings..
for me...u should not be shy..there are more friendly ppl out there...gud luck...=)
2006-12-19 16:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by rapunzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When saying hello how are you doesn't make you want to puke your guts out.
Then again..i do not allow myself in that situation of closeness anymore.
2006-12-19 16:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are comfortable talking with them and you laugh easily.
And they seem the same way .
2006-12-19 16:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋