What do I do if there's a guy that I like and I think that he likes me to.I go to where he works just to see him and he always ask me if I want help to the car with my groceries. But I always say no, even though I would like to talk to him but I'm a real shy person?
2006-12-19 16:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just sitting here reading the few answers that I have gotten and thinking about him is giving me butterflys.
2006-12-19 16:52:21 · update #1
YOu asked how I get the guts to go to his work I try to hide from him if possible but for some reason he always gets called for a carry out when I'm in the line.
2006-12-19 16:54:32 · update #2
I know his schedule thats why I try to get there a 1 when hes back from lunch to see if I can get the guts to talk to him but like today I sat in my car until he went inside.
2006-12-19 16:56:43 · update #3
STOP being so shy..... Next time let him help you!!
2006-12-19 16:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a shy person??? where do you get the guts when you go to where he work... Dont say no. try to talk and have a good conversation... but if the problem is your not a good conversationnalist(a person good in converstion hehehe). always try to think of something to talk to. even little things will do. Some men are also shy but if you show them some interest to they might come out of it.
2006-12-20 00:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by vahnrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,The next time he asks if you need help to the car...say YES!!
Then you can ask him about general things like
"Do you think it is cold as I do?
"Well,you have seen what I drive..What do you drive?"
"You sure are polite doing this for me.....and you can tell your girlfriend I said so!!" (That's a sly way of finding out if he is single or not.....)
Good Luck!!
2006-12-20 00:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shy too. Next time he asks, tell him that you would appreciate the help. Ask him about his work and make small talk. If the attraction is there, you will know it.
2006-12-20 00:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him help you, b/c like you said he probably likes you to. And even if you are shy it will probably give him the opportunity to talk to you or eventually ask you out, esp if you continue to let him help you. Good luck :>
2006-12-20 00:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frequent the place! Sounds like you already do. I would let him help you especially on a larger order. Flirt like crazy...play coy sometimes...find out his special schedule. You can do it!
2006-12-20 00:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely let him help you with those groceries. Smile at him and just talk about the weather if you have to.
2006-12-20 00:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and let those butterflies fly.
2006-12-20 00:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it you may never find out until you try........and if you don't you might regret it!
2006-12-20 00:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by murderdolls30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazinees is the solution to all problems
2006-12-20 00:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋