Im in love with someone that will never love me back, and I dont know what to do. I cant eat, I cant sleep, I dont even want to do anything. We were dating then he ended it, then we still kept on having sex. I got more and more attached, and today I told him we should stop all he had to say was ok. Why did I fall in love with someone who could care less..I just want to crawl into a hole and forget he ever existed, but I cant
2006-12-19 16:37:07 · 13 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep breathing in and out. It will be ok.
Tonight will be the worst part of it, take some Tylenol PM or something and go to bed.
You did the right thing, this guy was no good for you. Just keep yourself busy, look to your friends and family for support during the next couple of weeks.
It will be OK. When you are feeling better you will meet someone absolutely wonderful, who you would never have met if you hadn't dumped el-jerko.
2006-12-19 16:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's real hard but the only thing to do to get through this is to let yourself grieve. First cut him out of your life. No more phonecalls, no more contant, no more seeing each other, no more sex. You can't see him. Period. You can't hear or talk to him. You have to throw all his stuff out. Don't keep his reminders in the house. After you've cleansed off the physical matters that associate with him. Go on with your life, go to work, go out with friends once in a while, hang out with your family.
But, after all that, after staying busy without him all the time, there will stil be times where you think about him. At that time, just et yourself think about him. That's something that will have to come out of your system. In the end, time will heal all. Just take it slow. I wish you all the good luck.
2006-12-20 00:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're going through this! Please don't have sex with him again. The more you have sex with him the more attached you'll get... it's a biological thing. I know it's cliche - but time DOES heal all wounds. If he was ever worth anything, then he'll know he lost a good thing and come running back... Just don't have sex with him!
2006-12-20 00:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by karespromise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Romeo and Juliet. I think you will find someone else later on. Right now you're still attached to him. If he didn't care about what you said, you should stop thinking of him and go on with you rlife.
2006-12-20 00:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Giants Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses and be thankful that you are not subjecting yourself to any more torment. You are worth more than he could offer you.
I know it hurts like hell now, but in time you will move on and find someone that will love and treasure you. In the meantime get busy spending time with friends, and finding yourself.
2006-12-20 00:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're gonna crawl into a hole, drag someone with ya
2006-12-20 00:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years ago I broke up with a girl and I felt the same way,But it passed as I found other things in life to make myself happy,Two years ago go I saw her in a club it was great because I realized I did the best thing at the time breaking up with her,You see I found some one how loved me more after she was gone good luck.
2006-12-20 01:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Eric c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart.....You are grieving the death of a relationship. I believe these feelings will eventually run there course.
But I am worried on one point......You sound kind of desperate and clingy. And fornicating just added to the misery!
I believe you can do better!!
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2006-12-20 00:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face facts. Be real.
I quit smoking in minutes. I made the decision that I was a non-smoker. Make the decision. He/she is a non-issue. It's over, or it's not.
2006-12-20 00:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't crawl in a hole but you can move on.
2006-12-20 00:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋