my partner has lied to me, after she said she would never hurt me, cheat on me or lie to me in any way, she said she had bought my airfares but when I rang the airline today I found I AM NOT on any of the lists of passengers for any of the flights tomorrow so now I feel mad, hurt and sad all in one, I am going to talk to her tonight and am prob going to forgive but I'm just wondering how to approach this.
thanks
Mitch
2006-12-19 16:22:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like answer 3, any more advice from you email it to me please
2006-12-19 16:34:54 · update #1
Mitch, just be honest about your feelings. Tell her that you know she lied and you're disappointed in her. Explain that you thought you were closer than that but she's proven that she doesn't care for you as much as you thought she did.
Depending on how willing she is to accept your expression of your feeling, you'll see just what kind of woman she really is.
If you're willing to forgive her (which by the way is a great idea) then make sure that you truly forgive and let it go, don't bring it up again and again. Because in the end, that will only hinder your personal growth.
2006-12-19 16:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit like you are whipped..no offense... i mean for her to lie is pretty shittty...makes you wonder what else she's lied about
good luck, but i'd find someone else
2006-12-20 00:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋