she is a bully I have 3 kids 7,2,and a 1 year old. and my daughter is very mean I don't know what to do I have tried everything. Today she peed in her diaper took it off and started walking towards the garbage can and then turned around and threw it at my face it was discusting and she thinks it is hilarious she is not scared of anything and is constantly beating on the other kids. I don't know what to do but I'm goin crazy .(I also have anxiety problems and panick attacks) she is a cutie but man she is a handfull if anyone has any tips on what to do or any suggestions on how to relax when she acts like that I would apreciate it greatly!! she goes to bed on time and takes 2 naps so I know that is not the problem and she doesn't drink caffeine or anything.
2006-12-19 16:10:44 · 10 answers · asked by freckleface 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
My suggestion at a (pre) Kindergarten teacher is to reinforce positive behaviors you want to see. Do use your own personal forms of punishment but reward those behaviors your like.
Example: 2 year old helps to get things for you while you feed/change the 1 year old. Say to her, you are such a big girl. "Mommy" really likes it when you are nice and help her with big girl things.
Children respond to situations after a while. When they see that you will reward them for good behavior, their attitudes will SLOWLY change.
2006-12-19 16:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get a hold of 1-2-3 magic. It's a great book and will you will be able to pull her into shape quick smart. She needs discipline and structure. It also tells you what to do in situations.
2006-12-19 16:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by deedee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she is learning that she is getting attention that way you need to teach her how to get attention the right way. give her lots of attention when she is good. and punish her for bad Ac's. even when she is mean to the other kids attention to a kid is attention.they take what ever they can get.have them give her some attention when she is being good. good luck and god bless.
2006-12-19 17:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by janelle p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may feel like you spent too much time with the oldest and the youngest one and this is why she is retaliating against you. try to spend some time with her and start to explain why she cannot do things that she does wrong. don't show her that you are angry at her, or frustrated at things that she does wrong. just correct her and tell her why it's wrong..
i hope that this helps..
2006-12-19 16:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by quyen83 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Read James Dobson. Any of his books on parenting are GREAT!
2006-12-19 16:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by 2boysmom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should take action when ever she do the naughty thing. show her that u r very angry and beat her (at her palm). i always do that like show my monster faces and it works.now i dont have to do spanking just show this funny faces and it works like magic.
2006-12-19 17:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by celestia ck 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
seriouslyl, smake that kids butt!!!!!she needs to know that YOU are the parent and that YOU run the show! dont let her run YOUR house. My son is 4 and sometimes does that but it stops when i tell him to appologize right now! if not, no tv, no candy, no soda, no play groups, NOTHING! take away things they like to teach them not to be mean!!!
I don't let my son run me over, spoiled of course, but I am the parent and he needs to learn to respect me and listen to me, because i am responsible for him for my whole life and what do i teach him if he thinks he can run all over me??! nothing, he can't go out into this world with that attitude, we as parents need to take control of our children., i know sometimes it s easier to give in, but you need to take your meds and stand up to them MOM!!!!
you can do this, you are strong enough!!!!
oh, yeah no more naps!!! thats giving her the energy she needs to go out and be mean!!! my son stoped napping at 2, he was up for 20 hrs if he had a hour nap
2006-12-19 16:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
-award her when she is good and dissinclude her in fun activitys.
-make a chart of some ideas
2006-12-19 16:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by 2 cool 4 u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she does sound like a handful i may only be 11. but my nephew and niece are both brats. so all you have to do is be stern and if it's necessary try a span kin and time-outs.
2006-12-19 16:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Madi H 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
time outs? spanking? taking all her toys away? if not talk to a behavioral specialist, good luck honey
2006-12-19 16:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by BoTToms UP 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋