3 years broke up with me 3 months ago i still miss her and want her back. My first approach was to beg and etc you know the routine. That made all the things worse she has pretty much moved on but she will call me to talk to me and what not she said that we have to be friends for anything to ever work with us and that there is no doubt that she still be with me if i wasnt so jealous. She is in this stage to do drugs get drunk and be single which i can relate to but i think that sice im always there for her when she calls and when she does she hangs up on me and yells and gets mad for no reason not sure why but if i keep myself around she will wont see what it is like not to still have me on the side and maybe she will realize that she needs to maybe rethink her choice does this make sense or not also should i just ignore her even if she calls me
2006-12-19 16:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's trying to cope with depression or something with the wrong outlets. If anything, I would try to move on. If you can "relate to what she's going through," then it sounds like you've been there, done that. I wouldn't tempt myself to get back into that kind of life. If she doesn't realize how good you are to her, even if you like her more than she likes you, I would try to back off and at least pretend for a while that you're not as interested in her as she knows you are. That way, hopefully she'll come to her senses and realize what a great guy she has-- and if not, then it's her loss and that's a sign for you to really move on.
2006-12-19 16:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys aren't meant to be together. why do you still want to be with her? it sounds like she takes you for granted as someone to talk to when no one else is around. then she blows you off to drink and get high? do you really want to be with a person who would rather drink than be with you? i could be wrong though cuz i dont know all the info, but maybe you should consider meeting new girls and finding one that doesnt treat you like crap
2006-12-20 00:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by twiggy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. Don't take her calls. You don't need a friend like that; nobody does.
2006-12-20 00:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chick !!!the sooner the better !!
2006-12-20 00:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by yerbigman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her anymore. Move on.
2006-12-20 00:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/oppsite-sex-friends.html
2006-12-20 00:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋