My exgirlfriend doesn't want to lose my friendship but she might want to date someone I'm uncomforable with

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She told me that she wanted it to be ok with me that she dated this guy because she says she cares about me and that she would rather have me and him as friends than him and not me. She cried in front of my face when she said she didn't want to lose me as a friend.

My exgirlfriend who I just broke up with doesn't want to lose me as a friend but she has this friend who told her he likes her and she said she's unsure of whether or not she likes him (she's liked him before and were childhood friends). I don't like him and if she starts to date him, I'm scared that she'll drift away from me. She calls me her bestfriend and she cried in front of me when she told me she didn't want to lose me. What do I do?

Answer 1

= Hang in there she will be back.
What did you do to make you so unsure of you and break up. Are you a sucker or true blue only you can answer that question.
I hope that she comes to her senses and the two of you get back together again
Happy Holidays and best wishes from a real trooper.

Answer 2

She wants to hurt you! She wants to watch your face as she twists the knife by dating someone that you don't like, and yet keeping you close. What will you do when she starts telling you that she's sleeping with him, and wants to give you the details because you are her 'best friend'.
Don't you think it's weird to be hanging on to the coat tails of someone who doesn't want a relationship with you, but wants to keep you under her thumb?
And forget the crying, women do that to get their own way, not because she feels bad about what she's doing.

Answer 3

IF YOU AND HER ARE NOT TOGETHER THEN IT REALLY
SHOULD NOT MATTER AT ALL WHO SHE DATING AS FOR
YOUR FRIEND SHIP THAT GOOD TO HAVE BUT AS TIME
GO ON YOU AND SHE WILL START TO SEE LIFE IN DIFFENT
PATH. JUST BE THERE FOR HER BUT TRY TO LEAVE IT
AT THAT, BECAUSE YOU CAN LOSE HER IF YOU DONT.