2006-12-19 15:01:56 · 11 answers · asked by Jai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like her enough, then you should try to make peace with her parents. Is it the way you dress, the way you speak? Listen in certain situations you have to play a part. When I'm at work, I am at my most professional self. When I visit my man's mother, I am my very adult and kind self. When I'm with my friends or in a social environment, I am my laid back, chilled self. When it's me and my man I'm the sexy vixen part of me. Sometimes honey, you have to play the part, speak the part, dress the part, look the part, and try to get to know her parents. This will be one less thing you and your woman will be fighting about. If she's even somewhat close to her parents you're going to have make peace with them.
2006-12-19 15:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: Get a job
2: Tell them your impossible future plans
3: Compliment their good traits, and never give light to their flaws. Unless you married their daughter of course.
4: Offer to help around the house with anything.
5: Show total respect for the girl in the presence of her family.
6: Don't slouch, or scratch, pick your nose, and/or lie in an obvious manner.
You didn't think it was going to be easy did you?
2006-12-19 23:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Heero Yui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about the parents. Time will take its course and they will start liking you, Well that depends on how you keep yoour women
2006-12-19 23:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this hit home with me because my boyfriends parents are willing to send him away simply because THEY feel i am not the one for him.they have no valid reasons. as difficult as this is to accept I've learned you can not force them to like you but you can give them absolutely no reason not too.On top of that make sure you do your best to make you women happy because you love her as you normally would weather they liked you or not and they will if anything have reasons to like you and be wrong on there part for being stubborn.In the end it's about you and her. but always make sure to listen to there reasons and check yourself to make sure they're not valid.and try your best not to dislike them for loving they're daughter too much but be understanding.
2006-12-19 23:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her? it shouldn't matter what the parents thinks. this is your and your gf's life. whatever makes you happy. its going to be hard. are you willing to go through it, is the question. do you love her enough to show her parents how you feel about their daughter? once you prove you can take care of their princess, then you win the parents.
2006-12-19 23:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to find out why they don't like you? You can ask your girlfriend about it. Or, you can discuss the issues with the parents. Ask them what reservations they have about you. Then, try to reassure them.
You could try that as well as winning their heart by doing things for them and their girlfriend that they enjoy.
2006-12-19 23:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your women's parent make all her choice? she love you for who you are and not who her parents wants you to be. if she really likes you she will stay with you no matter what her parent think. you should not have to change to please them and you do not need to change for her.
2006-12-19 23:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie, " The Fockers" for some real ideas on what to do. Just be yourself. They have the problemO not you.
2006-12-19 23:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, as long as the woman likes you!
2006-12-19 23:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so they don't like you well just be polite and may be they will get to like you. after all your not interested in them anyway. its the daughter your after.
2006-12-19 23:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋