okay so i was with somebody for a while then i broke it off and decided to take that person back after realizing i had made a mistake. then that person breaks it off after we got back together....and got with somebody the day after..i believed all the lies the "i still love you" and "we could still be friends" i was just soo mad at him i pushed him away and didn' t bother to try and be friends...that person did the same. after the relationship didn' t work out, he's recently jumped into a new one and yet i'm still not over him. i get soooo emotional and i feel completely helpless. i want to be friends with him because i miss him so much.
2006-12-19 14:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been right there in the same boat several times. i can't give you really any advice because its something that you have to deal with and learn through time and healing but once you get over him you will feel so much better. i am trying to get over my baby's daddy right now so i wish that i could come and cry with you but you have o be strong. keep your self ocupied and don't even worry about stressing yourself about finding a way to get him back because it won't work. he played you and did you wrong and he doesn't deserve you. so move on and show him that you don't need him. he wil want you back once he has what he's lost. be strong and try to think of all the bad things he has done and not the good things until you are fully over him. let me warn you that when you get over him you may feel good for a while and then you might see him or think of him or see an old picture of him and be right back where you are now but be strong and try to find a strategy to help you get over him. Good Luck and stay away from that Loser! LOL
2006-12-19 15:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this problem also. Sweetie in a couple of months you'll be fine. Just think about other things. Take your mind off of him. Keep yourself busy with friends and family. Find a hobby. Look at it like this, if it didn't work out with him it means there's something out there better. Trust me I know. I dated this guy who cheated on me all the time. I thought I couldn't live without him. I'm so glad I 'm not with him anynore. I don't even think about him anymore. Now he's begging to be with me. I've moved on.
2006-12-19 23:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.... do you want to get back with him just because it is convenient to you, you are used to him and his actions.
Listen, there are a ton of single people in the world, try a new boyfriend. This way you will really see what you had and what you got now.
2006-12-19 22:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hillbilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it. Try meeting a "rebound guy". It works. You don't have to be sexually involved or anything with him. It's just a guy that you can hang out with and chill with until you get over your ex. If you are sitting at home by yourself, then you are going to miss him even more.
2006-12-19 22:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, that is called obsessing. It's not particularly healthy.
It is time to take control of your mind and get moving rather than allowing yourself to focus on this.
It's totally counterproductive, so get up and get busy doing for others, then you will find what you need in life.
2006-12-19 22:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in shape. Feeling better about your body takes your mind away from this.
2006-12-19 23:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by memolino2007@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay single for a while be independent and see what you can do on your on without a man take up a new hobby or hang out with your girlfriends
2006-12-19 22:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are pathetic, you are acting and proving his point why he left your sorry fat *** in the first place. Don't you have any self-worth??? Cupcakes, move on to the next treasure because this one has already been raided.
2006-12-19 22:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take ur time...
make a space for ur own self...
dont think too much...
dont make this thing disturb u...
try to attract with sombody else...
if u keep with him...
you will keep suffering and hurt!!~
2006-12-19 23:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Girl S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally kno wat you are going through and it sucks......if he doesn't want to be friends then don't even try to maintain a relationship bcuz if he broke your heart once he's likely to do it again and then you will be in even more agony............as far as reovering don't run to som new guy just bcuz thats wat he did........it will not make things any better don't hide your pain........you can cry all you want to ...........really theres nothing that can heal you like time..........i kno it sounds cheesy but this is coming from someone who had to go through this herself believe me
2006-12-19 23:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by jamie_lynn_1109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋