My exgirlfriend who I just broke up with doesn't want to lose me as a friend but she has this friend who told her he likes her and she said she's unsure of whether or not she likes him (she's liked him before and were childhood friends). I don't like him and if she starts to date him, I'm scared that she'll drift away from me. She calls me her bestfriend and she cried in front of me when she told me she didn't want to lose me. What do I do?
2006-12-19 14:40:56 · 7 answers · asked by azwethinkweizmthebrave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
= Hang in there she will be back.
What did you do to make you so unsure of you and break up. Are you a sucker or true blue only you can answer that question.
I hope that she comes to her senses and the two of you get back together again
Happy Holidays and best wishes from a real trooper.
2006-12-19 14:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sounds like you need to move along and 'leave' this ex EX girlfriend by the side of the road. Move along and get yourself off the railway track, please.
She is going to run you over and over, until you take a train somewhere new and date someone new who will respect you. Forget about her friends, and new or old friends. That is her cake to eat, and she has lost you. Right! Get some respect for yourself and polish up your dating skills and move on.
Yep. It is as easy as that. I am sure you are a honey, and there are lots of wonderful people out there. You don't need this. Seriously. Step aside and find a new train route.
Go for it, and happy, happy dating.
Enjoy your life, and stop looking for the train accident. There are already tooooo many accidents waiting to happen!
Love Ava
2006-12-19 22:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you you both decided to be friends then this guy shouldnt get between you two. It might be tough i understand but your friendship seems important, do you really want to let it go over a guy she might go out with? True friendship will last through anything.
2006-12-19 22:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it sounds like she's trying to keep you as insurance in case things don't work out with her current. She needs a shoulder to cry on in case her feelings get hurt. Is that what you want? The leftovers? My best unprofessional advice is to move ON!
2006-12-19 22:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do nothing! She is your "EX"! You let it go and let her do what she wants, you have no say in what she does anymore. You should want whatever is going to make her happy. Your concerns are selfish! Maybe thats why she dumped you!
2006-12-19 22:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by stacey24bluegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be hanging around with your ex-girlfriend. Move on.
2006-12-19 22:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one who broke up with her, so do we really care what you do next?? NOT!!
It's none of your damn business who she dates.
2006-12-19 22:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋