I'm in G. 11 and I go to a high school in PA. Recently I got a tutor for science, and it's this girl (same age) who I have gotten a crush on. She's not a dork or anything. She's genuinely nice, and probably the first person I've ever really been interested in going out with. She's been my tutor since Sept. and I'm not sure how to go about asking her out, or becoming a friend.
After we finish going over the science stuff, we talk for a little while, but mainly just joke about school and stuff like that, just chit-chat. Although for chit-chat, it's pretty funny (for both of us).
I'm afraid to ask her out because given the way she acts towards me, I don't know what to expect. A lot of the time she gives off the impression she likes me somewhat, and then sometimes she's just really focused in on the work. If I ask her out I'm afraid she'll say no and the rest of the year will be very awkward. Do you know any way I can get a better idea what she thinks of me without being too forward?
2006-12-19 14:40:53 · 7 answers · asked by csau956 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say ask her. I know that these things come and go in our lives. I remember i was like that too, thinking that It would be akward if they say no. If she says no it wasn't meant to be but if she says okay then you'll feel 100 times better that you did ask her. And if it wasn't meant to be it'll pass and soon it'll be another girl later on in your life that you take interest in.
2006-12-19 14:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by eb_genius_jeff_andonuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life always involves taking risks, a lot of rsisks. Don't be afraid to take risks, at least this way, you will come to know the truth.
2006-12-20 00:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really like her, and she really likes you, and you just spend sum time with each other , ur naturly get to a point were you start a relationship. just go on with life together, just chit-chat, and u'll get to go out with him
2006-12-19 23:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by nano 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just begin by saying hello with smile, don't expect anything but get ready for sacrifice.
2006-12-20 00:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. someone i know always says this it might help you. i dont know if this person made it up or she heard it somewhere.
"it is only as awkward as you make it"
just ask her out.
2006-12-19 22:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by red sox! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should ask her out. Wait for her to ask YOU out. If you are really eager ask her if she has a bf and see her reaction
2006-12-20 00:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Choco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tme will act accordingly ...donot take any stress ... do what ever u like
2006-12-19 23:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by shuvadip d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋