We've had sex five times. I've never seen his balls. He wears boxer shorts and pulls his penis out from his boxer shorts. He even did this when I gave him head. Why does he not show me his balls and what does it mean? Should I just pull down his pants next time?
2006-12-19 14:37:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It maybe an insecurity about his size, his pubic hair, the fact of becoming completely undress, or the simple fact that no one has ever told him that, that was not ok. Unless he has a deformity he does not want you to see I don't see the problem on just asking him. I would not however pull them down myself because you don't want it to be an insecurity and you make it worst.
2006-12-19 14:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good question, but don't just pull down his boxers. There is a reason behind him not showing you. I am a male, I know.
You need to ask him straight up, but do it nicely. My guess is that A) he might be one that was born with just one or
B) he may have had cancer down there and has no balls.
Be easy when you ask him, cause there is definetly a reason he is purposly not showing you. Like I said, if you want to keep him as a boyfriend, ask him nicely and easily, if he really likes you, he will tell you the problem.
2006-12-19 22:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hillbilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have small testicles. He may be too embarrased for you to see them. Why don't you ask him why he doesn't take off his boxer shorts. Personally I would've asked him this the first time you had sex. I've never heard of a male not wanting to pull his pants down-most of them can't wait. Have you ever felt all of his private area. I get the impression the two of you are rather young.
2006-12-19 22:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by indepwman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has none. Maybe "he" is a "she" and the penis is fake too!!!!
Just kidding. No, don't just pull his shorts down. Ask him why he doesn't show himself. He might have an embarrassing scar, perhaps from an old operation. Maybe he thinks his balls are ugly or too small? (But DO ask, on the remote chance he may be hiding an STD)
2006-12-19 22:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's ashamed. I would talk to him and see why is he does that. If he doesn't answer or ignore you, just say "It doesn't matter if your size is a 2.5 or a 11. Just remember I'll always love you." And next time ya'll have sex, if he doesn't pull his boxers down, just ignore it. Respect his wishes.
2006-12-19 22:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off u should always feel down there! touch them, could be a number of thing! like hair color, small in size are to big, are just plain ugly, if ur concern about this and ur giving him head, then tell him u would like to kiss all of him, lets just hope this is a real man and not some woman with a strap on! and I'm not being funny but this happens all the time, seriously i would want to know, are u could let him fall asleep and take a peek!!!!!!
2006-12-19 22:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where to begin. He could have small balls, hairy balls, or even one ball. If he's fat or was fat at one point of his life he might have unwanted stretch marks. I think you should just pull his shorts down and see for yourself, or you could ask him.
2006-12-19 22:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by bill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just pull them down! Maybe he's ashamed of them for some reason. I guess the best thing to do would be to ask him about it, but that wouldn't be as fun, now would it?
2006-12-19 22:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just in a hurry or lazy, or maybe you should make sure that he doesn't have an std and he's covering it up, no offense..or maybe he doesn't have any balls...or maybe he's modest and insecure about being naked in front of anyone. On the other hand, maybe he just has small nuts, or no nuts.
2006-12-19 22:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's weird. you have to pull the boxers next time and see waht's in there. they might not be balls after all,hehehe
2006-12-19 22:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋