Is this wrong??
Something happened and I would like to know if I was wrong.
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2006-12-19 14:33:31 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am really good friends with my friends g/f and we talk a lot. We and a bunch of friends were at the pool. She was talking to her friend, when I came up behind her and put my arms around her. I kissed her on the neck and walked away. Now my friend is all mad. Why is he mad?? I am not trying to take her from him.
Would you be mad?
Do you really believe in the whole "bros b4 hoes"?? What would you say in this situation??
He was in his swim shorts and her in her bikini. Would you have been mad??
Would you have been upset??
Was I over the so called "line"?? Is he right to tell me to stay the ***** away from her??
She's not mad, he is. She doesn't mind. I would love to be with her but respect the fact that they are together.
Would you be ok or mad about this??
2006-12-19 14:34:17 · update #1
Is he just overreacting??
2006-12-19 14:34:42 · update #2
I kissed her neck not her lips and put my arms around her. Why is he mad??
2006-12-19 14:36:50 · update #3
I think what you did was not wrong to do to a girl, but it was wrong to do it your friends girl because doing stuff like that to a girl show small signs of affection, and why would you want to show your home boy's girl small tokens of affection unless you secretly have the hots for her. I just think what you did should have not happened to your friend's girl. As far as it being wrong if he thinks it is it's his girl so yes it is wrong.
2006-12-19 14:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obviously have a death wish, actually, you would have had a death wish if you kissed a girl who wasn't already taken on the neck randomly!!! You are dead!!! That girl should have killed you right then and there! You must just be into watching people freak out about what you've done! You know what they call people like you?!?!? Attention freaks!
2014-08-06 17:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much contact. You don't kiss anyone who is "taken", especially one of your friends chicas! You need to learn this rule now, or u will suffer a lot in your life! In fact, even the arms thing was overboard. Face the music, apologize to ur friend, and stay the fukc away from his girl or anyone elses for that matter, IT IS NEVER OKAY TO MAINTAIN OR ALLOW PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S GIRL/GUY. IT'S JUST NOT! WHEN IT'S A FRIEND, YOU MULTIPLY THIS RULE BY 10.
2006-12-19 14:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong. You crossed the line. She apparently likes the attention of more than one guy at a time. Put yourself in your friend's position. If you had a girlfriend, would you want another guy to kiss her anywhere on her body? It has nothing to do with putting your friends before girls. This girl is taken.
2006-12-19 14:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If someone who wasn't my womans father walked up behind her and kissed her on the neck and she didn't turn around and slap his face, she would no longer be my woman.
That stuff from the movies is bogus. Nobody comes before my woman except God. You don't mess with your partners woman. That's off limits and there are a zillion women in the world.
2006-12-19 14:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is fine! You are kind of a jerk, actually. You should resepct your friend and by kissing his girlfriend in that much of an affectionate way you are not respecting him at all! ESPECIALLY if you openly admit that you do want to be with her! If you want to be with her than you should be honest and tell your friend and his g/f maybe they would end up breaking up but what you did was kind of a lowdown thing to do. Also, sub-conciously, you did it to see what trouble you could stir up, myabe even cause a break up so you could move in on your friends woman. I would definately be pissed!
2006-12-19 14:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by stacey24bluegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not overreacting and YOUR over stepping your limits!!
Friends is one thing, but to think you can just touch or kiss a girl, any girl when the urge strikes, you have a problem and best control it now before it could land you in jail or with no friends.
2006-12-19 14:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes what you did was wrong, i would be mad too, its not the fact that he thinks you are trying to take her away from him, its just that she is his girl and holding her like that and kissing her on the neck is just crossing the line, your best bet is to just apologize to both of them and then not do it again....
2006-12-19 14:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Justin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You messing with ya friend's girl? Man.. if think that was overreacting, I would beat the **** out of you. Too bad. Anyway, I would never ever mess with that girl or that boy again. Unless some fights occur, time to get a little physical reunion.
2006-12-19 14:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its not THAT big but i do think you crossed the line of friends and more than friends. Bros b4 hoes for sure... same as chicks b4 *****.
2006-12-19 14:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋