in guys, like i heard they like confidence but what else? better yet to the girls, whats the perfect guy?
2006-12-19 14:28:58 · 20 answers · asked by cowboy1991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good question
but like some people have mentioned...we are all different...but you're definitely on the right track...confidence is a big one because women dont like men who dont initiate anything...of course initiating would mean with respect in hand...by initiating a good conversation...asking questions...and so forth...obviously the girl is going to be interested and shall be asking her questions as well... you basically have to make the girl feel you're interested...trust me...girls love attention and if you give that to her...you're on top of your game...
besides the fact that women are attracted to something physical to you...what is much more important is your personality...so you want to have some great personality...dont be too shy...shy can be cute...but there can be a too shy thats just annoying...
oh also one more thing...girls like humor, but more so a guy that knows when to stop...
hope this was of some help...good luck!
2006-12-19 14:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us know that there is no perfect guy, and I can't speak for other women, but this is what I'm looking for:
1. Intelligence / wit
2. Shared humour
3. Romance
4. Sensitivity
5. Common goals
2006-12-19 14:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by FoxyB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence, but not over confidence to the point of arrogance...
Someone who...is very interested in me in terms of what's going on in my life, my fam, my friends, my interests - asks questions & can remember what I've said...Cares for me - if I'm going through certain things, helps me out, sends cards of encouragement/words of encouragement, etc. Also, a guy who is creative & can think outside the box...
2006-12-19 14:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect guy, but what girlslook for is strength but soft, understanding, but demanding, confident, but weak, loving, good heart...
it cango onand on, everyone looks for something different, but not too much of anything, a good balance.
2006-12-19 14:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny i just asked the same question but other way round!?! YES, confidence is number 1.... it makes us feel a sense of security but for me personally i look 4 guys who are funny and can make people laugh.
2006-12-19 14:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ReeLsWeeeT♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny nice smile confidence not jealous not controlling smart ambitious family oriented out going did i say funny
2006-12-19 14:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are looking first and for most a security from a guy in terms of financial assisstance secondly the one who can respect them whoever they are and also respect thier desicion and the one who will love them for the rest of their lives.....lastly girls are looking for a guy who's looks fits on their taste so that she may bring him and be able to display him where ever they may be
2006-12-19 14:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by JOEY G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who is affectionate, attentive and faithful. A girl wants a guy who will make them feel loved.
2006-12-19 15:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A WOMAN WANTS A MAN TO ASK HER UPFRONT WHAT SHE EXPECTS INSTEAD OF TRYING TO BE THIS SUPERMAN OR MAC DADDY,BECAUSE WOMEN HAVE BEEN IN DIFFERENT STAGES,AND YOU WANT A WOMAN WITH A LITTLE EXPERIENCE OTHERWISE SHE WILL COME TO YOU EXPECTING WAY TOO MUCH BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS, SO, ASK HER THE 3 MOST IMPORTANT THINGS SHE NEEDS FORM YOU AS A BOYFRIEND, IF SHE DOESN'T KNOW, KEEP MOVING.
2006-12-19 14:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by integrity25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect man is compassionate, sensitive, attentive, trust-worthy and optomistic just like me!
2006-12-19 14:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋