Ok so theres this guy & my life changed when I met him. I thought everything was gonna be perfect, we flirted & he called me amazing. But he was dating a girl & she was all jealous. I don't know why she sent up her friends to talk to me & not any of the many others that like him. Nobody knew I liked him! But anyways I found out he HATED me, I IMed him & he said it was bc I apparently broke them up, & got his GF worked up. I said that that wasn't my problem & stuff. Then I pretty much shut down for like a day because I liked him so much and this came out of the blue. I was totally over him until the dance this Fri. He was always around me, & he asked my friend & me to join some dance thing. When we were doing the Macarena he jumped right in front of me & I fell on him & when I was talking to my friend he pushed us apart & went through. Recently when I walked into a classroom to say hi to my friend his ex-GF's BFF said to me No one likes you leave and then the GF said, Besides ****!(him)
2006-12-19 14:19:13 · 5 answers · asked by Valary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So please help me because I think I am starting to like him again and my friend doesn't think it's a good idea because of what happened before and what happened to me. I really don't know what to do. Ignore him? Kind of hard to. Pleasssssse help I will seriously love you forever if you do!
2006-12-19 14:20:32 · update #1
Move on...
2006-12-19 14:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not gonna want to hear this, but somebody's gotta do it and you might as well hate a stranger for telling you. He leads you along with the flirting so you'll play, but to his friends he's talking trash. I think he would probably be very interested in you if he wasn't so worried about what everybody else would think about it, but who wants a guy that shallow and chickensh**t???? He even had the balls to tell you he HATED you because his girlfriend broke it off because he was flirting with you!!!! If he was for real about you, instead of being mad about that he would have said 'yeah, it's like that' and asked you out....but he hasn't, has he? He's just making a fool out of you, girl. I would not only ignore him, I would be annoyed by his presence.
2006-12-19 22:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems like a love triangle. I would leave him alone. Imagine if you were in her shoes. She sounds vindictive, so stay cool and away from her as far as possible, and because she sounds like the type that would only start rumors. Besides, there is plenty more fish in the sea. Is he really worth it? Maybe he is hanging out with you to have company, but there is no guarantee that he will stay with you, he may go back to her, you never know. Best thing to do is to ask him straight forward what is intentions are (meaning does he want to date you or be your friend), but ask him nicely or it may scare him off. Good luck to you, I know high school is hard. All the games people play!
2006-12-19 22:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Its me again 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blah blah blah blah...no wonder you can't keep a man around!
2006-12-19 22:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ask yo mamma! (just kidding)
2006-12-19 22:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋