Okay, i just want to show this girl how much I care about her, but she just keeps telling me that she wants to become really good friends, first. So do i, but I want to show her that I care. How can I tell if she's interested or if all she wants is a friend. I've been as sweet as I can to her, and she never gives me a hint about if she likes me or not. What is she doing? Is she even interested in me or is she just playing me?
2006-12-19 14:06:11 · 12 answers · asked by hank23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's not interested... at all!
2006-12-19 14:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well.......I was once in your shoes. What I would do is just ask her straight out and go from there. I once had a crush on a guy back in my high school days, I just couldn't wait another day so I had to ask him and I really never thought that he would give a answer but, it turned out that he felt the same way about me. And the saddest part is that he went into the service right after high school, and he is still single.
2006-12-19 14:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Diana L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's not really interested in you, sorry. Maybe try and open up to her, and tell her how you feel. If she shoots you down then it's okay, if she truly is a good friend of yours then she will be fine with it! Hope I helped :)
2006-12-19 14:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbabealison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. dude i got a simaler promblem. we have already been friends for 2 years, but that is besides the point.
my advice is to just call her and ask her. Just make her answer you, "do you want to be friends or boy friend and girlfriend?' just ask her a lot easier then playing detective.
just wondering how long has this been going on for?
2006-12-19 14:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by red sox! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants u to move a little slower, and wants to be friends first, to see if u and her are compatible, no i do not think she is playing u, i do think she is interested, if u play your cards right, this could blossom into a nice relationship, what is your hurry?
2006-12-19 14:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she says good friends first obviously she wants a relationship but she shouldn't plan it like i dont say im going to turn my head upwards open my mouth and then breathe i just do it so you need to ask her if she likes you and she is sort of kind of leading you on.
2006-12-19 14:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by M.C.C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she think that if she told u that she like she will rune the friendship between u and her the best thing to do is to tell her that i like u and if u don't it OK i still want to be Friends
what do u think
2006-12-19 14:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be her friend dude dont worry about her caring bout you hopfully she will but dont rush just ask here out about 5 days after your good friends
2006-12-19 14:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by killingthought 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just b friends so even if it doesnt work out u cna admire from afar. plus mayb she wants to get to know u.
2006-12-19 14:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. It could be that she is not sure as to where the relationship will go.
2006-12-19 14:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by The Dark Knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not be sure about the relationship. Talk to her about it, it'll clear things up.
2006-12-19 14:10:20 · answer #11 · answered by anastasiagirl7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋