How should I approach this calling situation?

Question

Well, basically I went out with this girl for the first time on Saturday and we both had a really great time.. good conversation..ect. The night ended with a lovley kiss and a possible date this week. We didn't talk at all on Sunday.. I was rather busy anyways. Last night we spoke on the phone for a few minutes but it was late and she had school today. She did tell me that she "wanted to call me", rather than just going to bed. She said she'd call me back today. At 10 pm, she hasn't yet called and I'm pondering the best approach at this point. Any insight would be appriciated!

I wasn't really panicing or anything, and I definitely havn't came off as being needy or clingy. I just felt like I needed a game plan before it got any later. all and all, good advice.

Answer 1

Let the games begin....Sounds like she's interested....don't scare her away. Maybe she was nervous to call. Wait until Thursday...call her, but not to late at night cuz otherwise it will look like u were waiting it out to see if she's call that evening. And just be casual--u should get a vibe one way or the other and go from there. That's what I'd do. (But then again, I'm single, so what do I know??)

Answer 2

Don't put any expectations or value into a relationship that hasn't even begun. Keep your radar up for other things.

If she does call in the next few days just be upbeat, don't even mention the no-call and keep going. If you act hurt or needy you've blown it. If she apologizes for not calling just say "I wasn't here anyway - don't worry about it"l

Answer 3

Dont call her tonight. Give it time. If you havent heard fromher in a few days the casually callher. Dont come on too strong. She knows you are interested. Take things slowin the beginning and let her have her space. Be cool and calm.Ifyou ask her outforthe weekend and she blows you off then maybe think about movingon.

Answer 4

relax. Your moving too fast. There is no requirement that anyone call anyone at this point and you don't want to sound needy. If she doesn't call you tonight, call her tomorrow night and just say hi. Nothing about her not calling as she said.

Answer 5

Just wait it out. She may have gotten busy, whatever. GIve it a couple days and ring her. Stuff happens that interferes with the best of intentions. Don't worry, go on with your life. It will work out or it won't but don't stress.

Answer 6

Just wait til tommorow and if she hasn't called by 12p.m. (or 3 depending if she has school) And say hey... You didnt call me yesterday, she will gasp, say ooh imm srry i forgot!! you laugh and say no problem, so would you like to go out again sometime? (Before you ask her out again make sure her tone of voice is not pissed off or disgusted of you, lol hope that helps. WORD FOR WORD.

Answer 7

shes probably really busy and just forgot to, but wait awhile to call her back or she may think your to clingy mabey find something that you could do togetther and then the next day wait till later and call her and invite her. its polite and she may feel bad for forgetting to call.

Answer 8

First CALM DOWN!! i know you gettin all ansy but just chill
you gotta give it till tommorow night if she doesnt call, anything could have happened and if you call her it could just be annoying to her.. just chill and wait till tommorow..i hate to tell ya this but the ball is in her court (and I know tat SUX)

Answer 9

Keep your cool.
Don't wait around for her to call, something could have come up.
If you spoke w/her Monday night give it 1 week if she doesn't call back move on.

Answer 10

Just let it be.....don't look desperate!!!! She may just be busy or may call in a few minutes. If not, call tomorrow but let it ride tonight! Good luck!