This are the details, she is a single mom, with 30 years and really hot. When we started being intimate, I realized that I was having problems in getting a full erection. Couldn´t help but telling her the truth. She said that together we could work this out, and I think she meaned it. She have previously told me that foreplay wasn´t her favorite incentive, but being penetrated. I'm a diabetic but had good sex just a couple of years before. I'm the first man in her life who is so over her age group. Even worst, I love her...
2006-12-19 14:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by ximennapr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 21, and my boyfriend is 32. He is also a diabetic, and has low testosterone. He has erectile problems too. I have a very high sex drive, and so does he. The way we work around his problem is he takes medication. At first we tried viagra, but it didn't work. So they put him on Cialis. It works fairly well, and the effects last longer than Viagra. If her big thing is being penetrated, buy a dildo just in case "it" doesn't work. We have become creative for times when even the Cialis doesn't work. If she says together you two can work through it, then get with her and figure out other options. Having erectile problems is not the end of the world, it just requires some quick and creative thinking. But try the Cialis, because your situation resembles his. He used to get fully erect a few years back too. The cialis has worked great. We have been together for 2 years now, so be positive. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-19 14:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by jess_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that she wants to work it out with you, but she has to understand it as best she can from your point of view. Your diabetes may be the culprit and seeing your doctor in reference to this issue would be a good place to go.
Diabetics like you and I were studs years ago, but that did not mean the end of my sex life or my desires. I would say that the best is that you love her, not the worst.
2006-12-19 14:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should SHE do? This doesn't sound like her issue. YOU need to go to the doctor and have YOUR problem addressed. There are several medications available for erectile dysfunctional. Diabetes is contributing to your condition probably moreso than your age. There is plenty of info available on the internet on the subject. Sit down with her and talk to her about it and let her know you are willing to get help.
2006-12-19 14:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things that u can take before sex, also 4 play is a must, especially for her 2 perform it on you, right before u all have sex. Good luck
2006-12-19 14:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that she is being so understanding. But I don't think that there is much more that she can do. I think that it is your responsibility to go see a doctor about this to see if there really is anything that can be done.
2006-12-19 14:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get this checked out with your doctor. if you are on meds certain one tend to cause impotency. discuss your problem openly and honestly with your doctor and he
can probally help you with this.
2006-12-19 14:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her alone because you and her are just not right. you old enough to be her great great grandfather.I hope you two don't end up getting married.
2006-12-19 14:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She should run as far as she can....
IF this is the main concern of your relationship.
2006-12-19 14:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋