basically ive been in 1 realtionship, it lasted abt a year. recently it seems as though guys have just been trying to hang out with me, hinting at sex---which is not the weird part, im use to this, this is normal etc etc. but in some cases, these guys have gfs, and they know i know their girlfriends, i think its disrespectful of them, and i hate being seeing as a cheating option or the other girl. i hate cheaters. how should i go about telling telling jerks like this off?
2006-12-19 13:52:02 · 23 answers · asked by beautiful is a phase 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-19 14:00:03 · update #1
Tell them straight out that you are not even remotely interested, tell them you are going to ask their girlfriend if she knows they are hitting on you. Hit 'em where it hurts the most. Don't act the slightest bit interested. Laughing at them might even work. Embarrass the crap out of them.
2006-12-19 13:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by hockey2525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them exactly what you think of cheaters, and that they aren't worth of sharing your time, much less your body...karma will catch up with them...
Tell their girlfriends what they did...if it were me, I'd appreciate the information...just because you said 'no' to the jerk, doesn't mean every woman he hits on will...wouldn't you want to know if your guy was on the hunt for something on the side?
2006-12-19 13:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By trying to tell jerks like that off, you are imposing an impossible task upon yourself, because jerks like that are just too stupid to fully understand what you have to say on the subject.
Just give up, walk away while shaking your head in disbelief.
2006-12-19 13:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are really ignorant and don't have a clue that give answers here.. you first of all don't tell their girlfriends because it's not your place to tell and second of all you stop all contact with theses guys.. no friendship available for a guy that has a girlfriend that's trying to get with you- period.. you tell them that you have more respect for yourself then that and it's just not good on their part to be trying to get at you when they already have someone, then you don't talk to them anymore and avoid contact :) :) :)
2006-12-19 14:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the type of person you are, as how to handle this situation! You could easily tell them to get lost...or drop hints to their girl. All without being rude. Or you can go the total opposite and be vindictive and set them up so their gf's find out!!
2006-12-19 13:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell them straight-out that you know they have girlfriends and don't think they should be saying flirtatious things to you....and don't respond to any flirtatious suggestions they might make! If you ignore them or tell them to stop saying things like that, they'll probably get the message and set their targets on someone else.
2006-12-19 13:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, maybe you are giving these guys the impression of you being a "quick" hit, have you thought of that? Pumkin, this is normal behavior of anyman with libido, married or unmarried. You just have to get used to this behavior and modify your responses. Good luck cupcakes.
2006-12-19 13:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop putting out that vibe! They are responding to what you are giving them. Santa baby, youv'e been a good girl. Hello! You give us woman the bad name called tease. Stop putting yourself in that situation and then playing: I am so offended. You know what I am talking about!
2006-12-19 13:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Buckey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you just recorded everything that was said and youre going to play it back to their girlfriends. That will scare the crap out of them
2006-12-19 13:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you could:
1. Well we watched a movie today in school called sexual harrasment::::hurting or flirting , so it could be that.
2.slug 'em in the face.
3.tell their girlfriends
4. Orrrrr slug 'em in the face, AND tell their girlfriends!
2006-12-19 13:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋