i liked this girl since 6th grade and i never asked her out till now(8th) but now she is dating my best friend and he knew i liked her i wrote poems about here songs and i have over 100 love letters i was going to give to her but was to much of a chicken now for chrismas im going big i already have a $140.00 ring a love note with my favorite poem i wrote a love song i wrote for her and all my best drawings with her name in them plz help how do i win her heart dont tell me any crap like ypu cant buy her love or somithing stupid like that.
2006-12-19 13:47:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP. WARNING SIGN: SHE'S CURRENTLY DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND!
Now is probably not a good time to give her expensive presents and confess your feelings for her. If you break up her and your best friend, you could ruin your relationship with both of them.
Wait until she's single to tell her how you feel!
P.S. When/if you do get a chance to tell her how you feel, I would recommend starting SMALL...one note, one poem, one song, etc. If you give this girl a $140 ring, 100 love letters, and a whole pile of drawings, I can almost guarantee that you'll overwhelm her. You can't hurry love....take it slow!!
2006-12-19 13:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! If all that doesn't win her heart, nothing will. I am a grown woman, and I honestly can't think of anything more special than a poem and a love song written especially for me. What you are doing to win her heart is perfect.....so romantic and special! Now you have to just take a chance and go for it....you've waited long enough and if you don't let her know how you feel then you can't blame anyone but yourself for not going out with her. Best wishes to you, dear! I really hope you get that girl, you are the one she should be with.
2006-12-19 22:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude thats not cool. Don't give her a $140 ring. WAKE UP! shes going out with your best friend!! If a girl doesn't like you she never will. Forget her - get over her and go for another girl. Trust me its a waste of time.
2006-12-19 21:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Shrednaut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to take things slow a little and understand u need to start with a open communication friendship first and slowlly show her ur poems but most of all try to just hang out have fun together. Don't think too much Hollywood!
2006-12-19 22:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by unverified 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
BAD MOVE!!!
YOU CANT BUY HER LOVE WITH RINGS AND POEMS AND STUFF! IF ANYTHING THAT WILL FREAK HER OUT AND REPEL HER AWAY FARTHER! IF U DO THAT YOU WILL COME OFF AS NEEDY AND CLINGY... GIRLS HATE THAT!
be more interesting... be more like your best friend... and dont be mad at your friend either.. u never made a move...
2006-12-19 21:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude return the ring man its not worth it, if you know she doesnt have feelings for you its over, ive bought girls many things and when i give it to them they tell me they have no feelings for me, return the ring before you embarass yourself and waste your money!
2006-12-19 21:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can win her heart, at least for a while....but, you may loose your friend forever.take your best shoot.
2006-12-19 21:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. your obsessed. your in 8th grade???? seems a Little much! if that doesn't win her over idk what will!
2006-12-19 21:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋