The girls who are very nice girls that I consider having a relationship with are never good looking to me. I do want to have a cute gf, but it seems whenever I get a cute one, they end up having lots of flaws and are using me or they just dont really care about me. I like this girl, because of who she is, and she is ok looking, but I find myself worrying if other people think a girl cute or not.
2006-12-19 13:47:31 · 12 answers · asked by youshouldbedead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw I have plenty of experience, but only with hot girls.
2006-12-19 13:53:57 · update #1
If you continue to try to please other people, you'll wake up one morning and will be 50, single, and with no kids.
Everyone around you, that cared less what others thought, will have the life you could be having now with these girls that aren't perfect 10s!
I used to work for this guy that was just like that. He's 57 and lives with his mom. He's also waiting for his perfect 10 to come along (actually a perfect 20!). Crazy thing is he'll keep waiting.
I'm not saying just settle for any girl, find one that *you* like and ask her out. Besides, if all of your friends like her, they'll prolly try to take her from you!
2006-12-19 13:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that people put too much stock in how another person looks. Yes it is important that a person be appealing to you but it is not important if they look good to your friends unless you are planning on making your friends a part of your intimate relationship. You need to be honest with yourself and look for qualities that appeal to you in a person this way you can get past the superficial uncaring and using people you have been attracted to so far.
2006-12-19 13:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by pllbrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're being shallow, it's what's on the inside that matters not the outside, looks fade..and if that's all you look for then you're never gonna find true happiness. Try looking past what the girl looks like on the outside and look at her heart.
2006-12-19 13:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is where you are messing up...don't worry about what others think. I have found that people become much more attractive to me when they have a great personality. It matters more whats on the inside verses the outside....!!! Good luck
2006-12-19 13:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by dekota1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being normal. I feel that way too. You just need to realize that she may be thinking the same about YOU! When you get used to looking at her and touching her and being around her and kissing her, love will take over and you won't give a damn what anybody thinks.
2006-12-19 13:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Professor Maddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this "ok looking" girl then you should whole heartily deal with her because if you don't you are just as "shallow" as the flawed "good looking" women you are talking about.
...take this advice from one hottie to another!
2006-12-19 13:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too worried about what ppl might think than the problems lies with you!!!
You are being shallow and to to worry abt what ppl might think of how ur gf looks is much shallower...!
Grow up...!
2006-12-19 13:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you learn to date people YOU like and not worry about how others will think about them, you will not have any successful relationships.
2006-12-19 13:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont find her attractive, dont date her...if you think joe shmo wont find her hot, that is no reason to not date her...but seriously how could you be with a woman you dont find attractive?
2006-12-19 13:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go watch the film [shallow hal]
beauty lies within......
2006-12-19 13:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋