I've been going out with this guy for a week tomorrow and i've been really shy around him. I like him A LOT...more than i think i've ever liked a guy but i'm just so quite around him. i haven't had a relationship for almost a year now. now that i have one...i'm just nervous i guess. i don't know when i should kiss him or when i should hold his hand or anything. i'm just nervous. any advice as to what i can do to break the ice?
2006-12-19 13:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by ashv611 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just hold on to him (literally)...
what i suggest you do is that he takes you out to eat and just have a great conversation... after that youll feel perfectly comfortable.
2006-12-19 13:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The relationship can't go on at this stage. You need to do something to get you less nervous. Talk about something you are interested in or ask him questions that you are curious about. Most people over 21 tend to not have this problem.
2006-12-19 21:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rebbew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about movies, how hard certain tests were, ask him what his favorite band is, etc. He's probably just a little nervous.
As for the kiss, don't worry about it. The best kisses aren't planned out.
2006-12-19 21:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship, you need to let go and be yourself. If you are shy, there is a reason so you need to look inside yourself and decide if you truly like him and whether or not he likes you just the way you are. If so, there is no need to be shy at all.
2006-12-19 21:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Professor Maddie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk about things he enjoys doing, movies, music, sports. just hold is hand whenever you feel like it. he's your boyfriend so he will like if you make a little move, as for kissing you will know when the time is right.
2006-12-19 21:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's completely normal to be nervous. Just tell him how you feel and he should be able to understand and who knows. Telling him just might break that ice!! ;)
2006-12-19 21:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥i LuV mY nEw HuBbY LEO♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
woah what a coinsidence
i was kind of shy around mine too,but that wa smostly coz my english was not very good
after our 3 dates i got used to it..anw the communication wasnt going very well afterwards and ..he broke up
Dumba$.$
so what i'm traying to say is,relax and be urself ,say whatever u want to say,whenever ...
2006-12-19 21:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Frozen.Flame 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you probably are just nervous and dont know him well enough. once you know him more you wont feel so apart
2006-12-19 21:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep that sweaty paw to yerself
2006-12-19 21:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋