I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again
2006-12-19 13:19:55 · 21 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deposit money with a love note on it
2006-12-19 13:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shamudog 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's probably someone who works by themselves at the bank (try the customer service desk). Chat them up and ask if (insert name here) is seeing anybody. Then just ask her on a date.
Keep in mind, however, that she may very well be forbidden from dating clients - many companies have policies against this, and she could lose her job if so. Also keep in mind that many women find men hitting on them at work to be creepy, because they can't leave and have to stay polite, so be prepared to back off if she doesn't respond warmly!
Keep it casual, keep it friendly, and be prepared to take a NO with a smile.
2006-12-19 13:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A perfect time of year to do some personal snooping. Ask her if she spends her holidays with family or maybe someone special...? She'll let you know what she wants you to know. Both the answer and the way she says it to you will tell you something. Be sure the last thing you say to her is (look at her when you say it) "I hope you will have a wonderful day on Christmas, (her name)" That eye contact and a good wish will tell her a lot about you!
2006-12-19 13:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you must remember that she IS at work and that should be respected.
Secondly, if it is of issue to you to pursue this - then when receiving the "monies" being exchanged, hand your card to her .... with a note on the back .... if she is interested as well, she will contact you.
Otherwise, respect that she treats you nicely and leave it at that.
Otherwise, perhaps can make a generous offer of handing out "in general" Christmas cards to each teller thanking for their good service - when hand the one to her make sure it has a warm Christmas greeting and your number.....proceed as before.
But be aware that they will be cautious of your actions, so be sure and state this is a token of your appreciation of service.
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-19 13:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to find out the basics you could work it into conversation. Like when asking if she has any plans for the weekend, maybe ask if she has made any with her bf. Then if the coast is clear maybe another time ask her if she would like to get together for a cup of coffee or just to talk when she gets off sometime.
2006-12-19 13:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fly me to where ever you are and i will hook you up with her lol. All i need is a bottle of vodka and a few redbull and let the match maker begin..........Just say " i'm sure you get this all the time but are you possibly free for dinner saturday night" Whats the worse shes going to say no? Or find out her name and find her on myspace
hahahha
ryan
2006-12-19 13:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_CMB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you've caught her eye and your flirtations have "softened her up," go for it... ask her if she'd like to go out sometime. Make it casual and easy, and not uncomfortable for her if her coworkers can hear. Be prepared to have just an idea of where you'd like to take her and a pen to get her number.
If it doesn't work out, you can just start using the drive-thru ATM.
2006-12-19 13:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all apologize for any unwanted incident, look for friends in the bank who might be able to introduce you to her. They might even tell you whether she is single or has a boyfriend.
2006-12-19 13:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write your name and number and a short note on a piece of paper, say something like, "I would like to get to know you more, if you are interested give me a call, if not toss this note and it was nice talking to you" then fold it up and leave it on the counter as you're leaving, don't look back, then hope you get a phone call.
2006-12-19 13:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write your number on a piece of paper and pass it to her when you are at the counter.says that you would like to bring her out on a date.if she calls or text you.means she is single and would like to go out with you.if not, try other banks then.
2006-12-19 13:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her and casually mention that you think she is cute. If she smiles and says "Thanks," you can see if she wants to meet up. You can't expect to get her attention by being polite and slightly funny....she sees people all day. You need to get the message out.
2006-12-19 13:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by Rebbew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋