ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-19 13:14:30 · 6 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh for pete's sakes grow up!!! if you're not interested in her, then stop obsessing over what she's thinking. she doesn't even know what she is thinking it seems. btw, the two of you make a perfect pair.
2006-12-19 13:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had almost the same problem. My gf broke up with me for some big jerk, a total ***. 1 year had gone by, and I was trying to enjoy my life, with the scar she gave me. She left me a voicemail saying: "Hey, its (name). and then she started balling on the phone, she said, "I was so wrong, ive had a while to think about it and i think you were the best bf ive ever had. I just want you back. Call me back". So I agreed to meet her at the beach. I got to the beach, and she ran up from behind me, and tackled me to the ground and kissed me. I was pretty angry, but eventually I forgave her and now we are still going out, happier then before. So my advice to you, if she broke up with you and you still like her, you have to try to work things out, because you might never find someone as good as her. DONT let your anger and emotions get in the way when you make your decisions.
2006-12-19 21:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by youshouldbedead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always try to leave my options open. If you broke up with someone previously, most people will eventually get over it and will accept being friends. She might just be keeping the friendship open in case things change in the future. Don't hold your breath for her to come around though, especially if she is seeing someone else. If you are upset about this, you should probably just tell her that you don't want to be friends since it is too awkward and causing confusion. Move on.
2006-12-19 21:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rebbew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that she is thinking that she really values your friendship. She is probably hoping that you could atleast be civil to this new guy. I know you don't want any advice, but really continue being her friend. Don't mention your past dating affairs with her. Eventually she will miss you because you are always around to remind her of what a great friend and boyfriend you are and were.
2006-12-19 21:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, maybe she wants yew back, or she feels bad about the situation, its one or the other
2006-12-19 21:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. guy, get rid her and her messages, you can find a better one.
2006-12-19 21:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by rose s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋