stupid drunken act, now what?

Question

as in every group of friends there is a guy in my group of friends that is the unattracive weird guy that everyone loves for his random thoughts and comments and is always great for a laugh but no one would ever actually sleep with. the kind that never has a woman and you fear will never have one because he is just too... different!

well, i hooked up with this guy after a lot of alcohol one night after we went out partying. we laughed about it afterwoods and everything was cool but now i am averageing around 3 calls and 30 txt msgs a day from him. this has gone on for a week and even though he hasnt told me how he feels i know that he wants more than just another night together. he wants to be with me, how do i let him down easy before the topic comes up of the 2 of us being together?

Answer 1

Hooking up is fine for one night, but you both had clearly different plans for after that night. You can't expect that your ignoring tactics will communicate the message that you aren't interested. If you continue to ignore, its going to get worse, and then boil over into a dramatic situation. You should tell him how you honestly feel and how you want things to be in the future.

Answer 2

I can relate to you on this, I kind of did the same thing. The best advice I can give you is to immediately tell him that you are in no way interested and that it was just exactly that "a stupid drunken act". I, recommend that you also tell him to please not call you. I had to change my number because they persisted so much but hopefully you can avoid that. The best advice is to be hoenst and staright forward with this person.Best Wishes.

Answer 3

i'm rather particular one among those adult men is my dad. My mum (the female friend) had a threesome with those 2 adult men after all the nasty drunken acts n that is a secret who's my actual dad, coz dey both, U kno. merely out of interest, develop into one among them chinese language?

Answer 4

turn on , i.m