If you wear the wrong shirt, talk about the wrong thing, don't talk about the right thing, eat the wrong food, go to the wrong school, get born with the wrong parents, smile at the wrong time, have the wrong pitched voice, breathe, sit or stand the wrong way, you won't have a relationship.
This is too damn hard. Why are we so judgemental about one another, and why isn't this something that comes naturally?
2006-12-19 13:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by electroberry1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are exaggerating just a tad, but people do sometimes seek "perfection" in a partner not accepting or realizing it doesn't exist...
Be yourself...if that's not enough, then the other person isn't a good match for you...
If relationships were easy though, we wouldn't appreciate them enough...there's got to be some difficulty in connecting with that person who is a good match...and some effort put toward making the situation work, or we'd take it even more for granted than we sometimes do anyway...
2006-12-19 13:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. In a relationship (if a healthful easy relationship, if no longer single) 2. Sober 3. wealthy in money 4. Get Revenge >:D 5. Brains (already have been given the wonder, why no longer get greater brains than what I even have) 6. Extrovert 7. stay a teen :D 8. self reliant & based (self reliant often, yet based of my mothers and fathers) LOVE = is an unconditional profound feeling in direction of somebody/something. a feeling that's trustworthy and organic.
2016-10-18 12:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to get to know someone. I once dated a really beautiful woman who I had a lot in common with. But she had a laugh that was absolutely horrible. I couldn't stand it and she was a happy person so she laughed a lot.
Everybody is different and it takes a little bit of time to find the right "fit".
2006-12-19 13:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, a dating relationship is like a test to see who you are most compatible with. Yes they take alot of work, but the one that you work on the hardest and works the best is the one for you. If petty things get in the way like the color of your shirt, then your compatibility with that person is not even worth recognizing.
2006-12-19 13:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it really should come naturally. You are very right - but we are all humans and a lot of us are not too nice to be around and not too kind to those around us. I wish I could say it gets easier as you get older, well, I guess it does. Hang in there - things will get better for you also.
2006-12-19 13:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all looking for a perfect match...but there are thousands or tens of thousands of different features that all have to be right. Some of them are pretty lenient (black hair vs. brown hair) but others are must-haves (kind vs. cruel, selfish vs. giving, liberal vs. conservative).
Look on the bright side - anybody who'd dump you based on one little thing early on in a relationship wasn't going to stay with you for the long haul. Keep going until you find someone who will!
2006-12-19 13:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does come natually but if you are looking for a guy or girl and they are very jugemental after a few dates, they are not the right person. The right person isnt too jugemental and they love you for your personality and sense of humor. Not just your looks.
2006-12-19 13:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by akjgo94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the right person comes along, there will be no more wrongs in each others eye.... everythng will come to you and that person naturally. that is what you call true love and all the mistakes are infatuation or lust.
2006-12-19 13:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Wilting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because behinde every judgmental person there are a lost insecure child, everyone judges or makes fun of other people who what they eat, do, talk like etc because it makes them feel good about themselvs, they are not happy with who they and deep down they are scared of becoming who they are gonna be, they cant accept other differences because they cant accept there self
2006-12-19 13:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when two ppl are in love, they care too much about each other, and this comes down to the very little things you talked about like dressing, eating, talking...
2006-12-19 13:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by lillu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋