There was this boy. Me and him had a GREAT relationship. We didn't date but we were pretty close. He was like my best guy friend EVER.
One day, he told me that his mom was in the hospital, & I told him that I was there for him & he told me the same & that I could e-mail him anytime.
And, then, his house went up for sale. And then he deleted his Myspace. He is NEVER online anymore, when he used to be on ALL THE TIME.
The other day he was online & he was idle for like 13 hours.
Does anyone know what could have happened? I am sooo confused
2006-12-19 13:04:56 · 24 answers · asked by meganxrenee07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kept in contact with him until the time he got offline.
All I knew was that he lived with his sister. He didn't tell me anything about his mom.
I have tried e-mailing him. But, please don't leave me rude answers. I never did anything wrong to you.
2006-12-19 13:29:20 · update #1
Maybe he was in the witness protection program or something . . . or maybe his parents were in the CIA or something like that. That's the only explanation I can think of for him to delete a myspace account and for his house to suddenly go up for sale like that. Any one of these things happening at once would be ordinary, but this is too weird. Try to keep in touch with him . . . he's bound to explain it to you eventually. Good night!
2006-12-19 14:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is what happened. His mother was in the hospital and things didn't look so good. You told him that you were there for him and he told you the same... ???
Think now.. why would he be saying that he was there for you? Your mom isn't in the hospital! Okay, see this is what's up. This guy has been taking on some responsibilities. His mom probably has had some problems for some time. He's always been the strong one and he couldn't show any weakness. He's the one who supports others (like his family).
Then it happened. This dude's mom dies. Things are different now. The house goes up for sale. They move. They are regrouping. Right now the dude who was the strong one, the one there for you... well, things are out of his control. He doesn't have anything together right now. This is not a good time.
He can't come out because he doesn't want to show you any weakness. He doesn't want to be consoled. He doesn't know what he wants. He only knows that things will never be the way they used to be.
2006-12-19 21:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey. this is a tough one. there could be many answers to this situation. What i think is maybe he's really busy with his mom and he doesn't have time to be online and have a myspace. Maybe you should call him and see whats up, and how his mom and him are doing. But, please, don't worry too much about it. You didn't do anything wrong.
Good Luck!
2006-12-19 21:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brookie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his mom was in the hospital and things started changing dramatically like that, then something could have happened to his mom!! just sit back and wait for him to come to you. if he's hurting he's prolly just needing to deal with things in his own way and doesn't need you breathing down his neck. maybe show up at his work or school or wherever and make sure that he's okay but don't be all up in his face either. you let him know that you were there for him when he needs you, so let him need you. relax and think about the bigger picture.
2006-12-19 21:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like Mom died (or is in criticall condition) probably no insurance and the house is up for sale to cover the costs. Try going over (take him some food that will help)
2006-12-19 21:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, My best guess is that he knew he was moving. He just didn't want to hurt you, so he didn't tell you. Leave him an email telling him that you would like to hear from him, when he's ready. Then give him his space. If he comes around everything will be like it was. If he doesn't, then you're better off honey.
2006-12-19 21:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His mum could be dead, and thats a very hard thing to go through. Yesterday, i hd a dream that my mum died, and when i woke up, there were tears running down my face, and my bed was slightly wet because of the tears. The best thing to do is to visit him ,and if he wants to speak, then stay with him. talk about it, and be very gentle and caring.
2006-12-19 21:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Pandemonium 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his Mom is very ill or worse, perhaps she passed away This boy sounds like he really needs a friend.
2006-12-19 21:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him he is going there something bad my mom was in the H for 3 year in and out all the time it is hard on a kid
2006-12-19 21:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by The godfather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably busy and he might be packing up to the new house. Just give him some time and everything will be fine.
2006-12-19 21:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋