and last week we hung out at the park and we made out and stuff! we were in love too and were together for 6 months we only broke up because he was goin to be a freshman and i was goin to be in 8th grade i know your gonna say im too young for love but i can't stop thinking of him ever since we broke up a couple months ago! and i feel things for him be for i sleep at night all i think is about him and my heart starts hurting when ever some one says his name my heart drops. but he loves some other girl now i was just his "first love". but i can't let go of him i JUST can't! he said i should stop worrying about what other people want or feel and start thinking about myself. i just really want him back . how!?&& what should i do?! i don't want to scare him away or anything by telling him how i feel!
2006-12-19 12:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by Michelle s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some day you will look back at how silly, immature and not ready for love you really were...but since that wont work for you, he is in love with her, not you and thats the plain fact...right?
2006-12-19 12:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation can be tough to get over, but you have to realize that if someone doesn't care for you in the same way you care for them, that you have to let go and move on.
If you were crazy about some other boy, and your ex, whom you didn't dislike but didn't have strong feelings for, kept coming after you over and over, what would you do? Don't you think you'd get tired of it? It would probably serve to turn you off more than get your attention back.
This is just part of relationships and life...it won't be the last time you really dig someone only to have them not feel the same way about you...it hurts but we get over it and move on...it just means this person isn't a good match for us after all, but there will be many others who are...
2006-12-19 12:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to move on if he has ALREADY found somebody else. Does he still like you because if you guys made out just last week then he might still have feelings for you. If you like him that much you have to tell him again and again until it gets through his head that you still "love" him and hopefully your relationship could pick up where it left off.
2006-12-19 12:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by Push it. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will it take? a baseball bat over the head to make you see the light? why do you want to settle for being the "extra bit on the side" for him? don't call this love pls. he's using and abusing you, and you are freely and willingly letting him do it to you. this man doesn't even REMOTELY love you, and never will. yes its scary accepting the truth - we would all like to live in the world of things we want, as we would like them to be, but this is reality. there are many, many better guys out there who would love your committment and honesty, and return it to you - go gettem hun.
2006-12-19 12:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over this. Maybe next year when he is in l0th grade and you are in 9th, you can start over.
2006-12-19 12:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋