What can I do?

Question

There is this guy I met in school who said so himself that he has fallen for me for a month, and my friends told him we should go out, but he says it's kinda complicated. This was the complicated part, he has a bisexual girlfriend in another city and whom he hasnt seen (only talked to on the phone) since she moved. I asked him to choose between me and the girl he may never even see again and he chose her.

What is up with these kind of guys, first you like a girl, then there's a little hang-over? This will be kind of mean and selfish of me, but how could I convince him to forget her(who obviously is now moving on) and finally convince him to move on with me?

Answer 1

Obviously this guy is a total asshole. Most guys won’t do that to you, because they know most girls spread rumors, and wouldn’t want to risk that. I’m not positive but this guy could just be messing with your head. If I were you, I would dump him, and go find another guy that would want you and only you as his girlfriend

Answer 2

First off you can't make a man do anything....The more you act attached the futher you push him away...I suggest you leave him alone and let him realize he's missed a good thing. If he doesn't come back then he wasn't meant for you anyway. It sucks but that's just how it is. It may be a good thing in the long run. Good Luck and keep me posted.

Answer 3

patience. don't trash talk her or do anything that would make him see you in a different (negative) light. just wait it out...he's not going anywhere. if he does still want to be with her or he cheats on her with you...stay away!!

Answer 4

you can't convince him. you gave him a choice and he chose. future reference, ultimatums don't usually work too well. you need to move on...