Okay, so there is this guy who has feelings for me, and whenever i talk to him online or on the phone im not afraid to talk to him but i feel so awkward when im speaking with him face to face i meen i cant even look at him without trying to look the other way...what is wrong ?? and i know that it has nothing to do with him liking me...but i still dont know why it feels so awkward...plsz help!
2006-12-19 12:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm assuming he's not nasty otherwise you would know what the problem is. my only guess (without knowing you personally) is it might be a self esteem problem. i have a hard time looking anyone in the eyes b/c my ex was horrible to me and so were my parents. they brought me up thinking i was worthless and it's difficult for me to look new people in the face. i'm embarrassed or something. just relax and be more confident and KEEP AT IT!! whatever it is isn't going to go away over night. you have to explain to him what the problem is (so he doesn't think you're a freak or uninterested) and just be very aware of what you're looking at when you're with him and you'll be gazing into his eyes before ya know it!! :) good luck!!
2006-12-19 12:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shyness is actually the magnet of love in you at work. That is good, it shows that you have an inner feeling for him just don't let your emotions over ride your reasons.
2006-12-19 20:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you're just very shy, or you're more caught up in the fantasy over the phone and internet than the reality. ask youself how much you actually do like him face to face.
2006-12-19 20:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither can i with this one dude. i think its because you think that he might get the wrong idea, nothing gross. you think that he thinks that you don't like get the butter fly thingys in your stomach when you look at him. how ever that is the reason for you so its weird. its all in your head. but when you get nervous remember this: only 10% of nevousness shows, the rest is intracable. so get brave and look deep.
2006-12-19 21:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me you get butterflys, i wil tel you somert when i use 2 get butterflys over alad it ment that i liked him a lot but i didnt really trust him so you hav misked feals for him
2006-12-19 20:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u like him too
it happened to me
2006-12-19 20:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very normal !
2006-12-19 20:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋