I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half ... we're thinking bout having sex for the first time . can sum1 warn me bout wut i can expect
2006-12-19 12:34:23 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Expect a lot of pain the first time. Also expect awkwardness - where do you put your legs? What do you do with your arms? Are you supposed to be silent or make noises? Whoops, I slipped out. Ew, now I'm sticky. Ack! I fell off the bed. With a good partner all this shouldn't matter, though! With a great partner it'll all come naturally.
The best thing you can do about sex is to not expect too much; be willing to laugh at yourself (and your partner) and have a good time. It probably WON'T be magical, but it can be nice - very nice with the right person.
You also need to make sure you're on birth control of some kind, and that you're 100% ready for it. Being nervous about it can make it a lot harder.
2006-12-19 12:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably be awkward at first, especially if you are both virgins. Don't drink or do any drugs to loosen the mood. You want it to be special. My opinion is sex is always better when you are in love, whether you are married or not. Don't let people on here tell you, you should wait until marriage. That is your decision. You and your boyfriend need to be mature enough to handle the emotions that come along with having a sexual relationship and mature enough to talk openly about birth control and protection against stds. If you both aren't ready, don't push or let him push. It's your body and only you can do what you want with it.
2006-12-19 12:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will hurt!! don't let anyone tell you differently!! the first few times that you have sex, it won't last that long, it'll be awkward and weird and you won't enjoy it at all!! you'll probably bleed and it'll feel yucky and it'll hurt (i had trouble sitting in jeans after the first few times). but after that, it's incredible. it's a very personal thing and the fact that you've been with your boyfriend for so long is a good thing...just be smart and safe: TWO forms of birth control!! condoms CAN break (just ask my two year old!!) so make sure you get protection too like the pill or the shot or something.
2006-12-19 12:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is the next step of a relationship. If you willing to have sex with your partner make sure you use protection. Sex is a form of exercise and full of feelings. Take things slowly for a start and it does not hurt unless you done crazy styles on it. Good luck
2006-12-19 12:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can expect for it to be disappointing at first.... but if you are serious a bout this guy then it will get better. Trust me even people that have been active for a long time still only last 15 minutes tops... lol
2006-12-19 12:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well unless you go horseback ridding on the regular it's going to hurt some, kind of like an uncomfortable pressure and there might be some bleeding. But once you do it a few times it's feels pretty good. Oh yeah and remember to us a condom.
2006-12-19 12:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chetaraparker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not all it's cracked up to be
when you are in love of course it's better
but it's not the end all people make it out to be
it can be very enjoyable but the first time will most likely give you some unexpected emotional issues you are not prepared for..
take your time, think about it for a while longer
2006-12-19 12:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's good that u waited for the right time...i think that's great. well it's going to be somewhat uncomfortable and possibly painful for u..and some light bleeding perhaps..the first time is usually kinda awkward and not so pleasurable..but after that first time....is when the good stuff comes..and u begin to try new things and discover...it's great that u have someone special with u to do those things...Good Luck!!
2006-12-19 12:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by prchik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way to go for holding out so long. It's not actually as great as people make it out to be. It can be really good at times but it's alot of work and responsibility. Sometimes I'd much rather just jerk one out then to go through the trouble.
2006-12-19 12:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Expect a lot of things. Just make sure you aren't being pressured into it in way!! It may hurt a little and it may feel great. Just take it slow and make sure you dictate the pace of everything.
2006-12-19 12:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋