I dont people to be afraid of congregating or hanging out with me , How do you all go about making sure someone does not feel intemidated or afraid of being here?
2006-12-19 12:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mrdude 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
get them involved make them laugh make them part of the plan
2006-12-19 12:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by amidamaru989 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't worry. If the person is willing to come over, then he/she obviously doesn't hate you. So as long as you don't do anything to change their mind, they'll continue liking you.
Second, when they're at your place, they are your guest. So I recommend that you pay attention to them and don't do things like leaving the room to go off and do other activities if they don't have anything to do. I think it pretty much goes without saying. It's really not hard to be a good host.
Third, when your friend comes over, you can offer him/her something to drink like water. But don't feel the need to be constantly asking him/her if he/she needs something.
Fourth, if you have anything that you think would offend your friend, then get rid of it. For example, I would not want to spend time in a room that had pornographic pictures on the walls. So just look around and see if you have anything that your friend might think was inappropriate.
Just have a good time and enjoy each other's company.
2006-12-19 21:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but if you want people to be comfortable around you then you should be friendly. Ask them questions about themselves, or share intrests. And smile more, you'll look more approachable.
2006-12-19 20:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with them. Or rather, listen to them. Everyone likes an active listener and a chance to talk about themselves. If you're a good listener, they won't mind being more open with you.
2006-12-19 20:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Less people, less stress. Focus on people you like and have something in common. Do something all like?
Your "problem" goes away
2006-12-19 20:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that they are there if they don't want to be? Are you kidnapping them? Holding anyone hostage?
2006-12-19 21:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your trying to be a perv. or are hitting on your guy friend-then, I don't see what they would feel uncomfortable.
2006-12-19 20:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get naked.. if you're hot then you'll turn them on.. if you're not, then you'll break the ice by making them laugh
2006-12-19 20:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Daenerys 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more relaxed you are the more relaxed they will be.
2006-12-19 21:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends if your gay or not
2006-12-19 20:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chris M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋