Well, he's technically not my teacher anymore, he was last year. He and I are pretty good friends, for being a female student and he being a male teacher....He is married, unfortuneatly, but has only been for a little over a year...I really like him, and people I've asked seem to think that he likes me too, and that if he were my age that he'd date me. I'm 16 FYI....But I really don't plan on doing anything until I'm 18. And the thing is I can't think of reasons to go talk to him anymore, I'm not in his class, so when I do go talk to him, it's awkward for me...I'm hoping to be in one of his other classes next year. I need some conversation starters....Would innuendo help at all? When I'm 18, should I tell him flat-out how I feel, or should I be subtle? Please don't tell me how 'wrong' it is. I know, it's 'wrong'....
2006-12-19 11:53:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this Yahoo condemn me to h3ll or yahoo answers? She didn't ask your opinion...schmucks!
Since you know it's wrong, and you think you're cool with that... Why wait? You can probably have him, but you definitely cannot keep him! "Being" with you, is a crime, but as long as its just a fling and you understand that he will not leave his wife for you... EVER, go get him tiger! Youth can be very seductive. Go see him, get him alone, walk up to him with certainty in your eyes, grab him by the hair on the back of his head, assuming he's not bald;), pull him toward you and kiss him hard, gently grab his man parts through his pants and say "I don't want to keep you, I just want you for now!" If he doesn't reach climax at that point, he will shortly;)
2006-12-19 12:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Though it may seem wrong love is something the human mind can't dismiss. Since you are 16 I would not suggest telling him now because you will get him in trouble and so will you. If this Love is still present two years from now I suggest talking to him and tell him. The one thing you have to think about is he is older and is in Love with his wife and will most likely have kids by the time you tell him and do you want to risk hurting his children's feelings. Love is a crazy thing and will come and go but if you realize that their are more fish in the sea you will be better. Have you ever really talked to this teacher out of school?
2006-12-19 12:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Neo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your mouth shut!! He is a married man and you are a 16 year old kid, for God's sake find someone your own age that isn't married, and if you know it's wrong then stop and think. Would you like someone taking your man if you ever get one of your own, I think not!!l Maybe you should ask his wife about some conversation starters, she might be able to help you out.
2006-12-19 11:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys that have answerd this question are total perverts and have no Idea what they are saying even though there are many 16 year old single guys out there theywonh't be the same to you as this one depending on how you feel. yes he is married but what does having a teacher have to do with it its not like a religion that syas u can not have an affair even though you shouldf wait till its legaly right you should bare in mind that he is having a relationship with another woman
2006-12-19 12:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kenyon M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...I give you credit! You admit you are wrong, but I do not judge others. I would suggest..being VERY careful...waiting....when I was 16, there were MANY things I wanted...(and women I wanted too...LOL)...now that I am in my thirties, I look back and I thank GOD I did not get every thing I asked for!!!!!!!!!! For at 16, I was not mature enough to handle my requests or their consequences...although I thought I knew it all. Now, I am not saying you fit that description at all...just telling you I did...and again, encouraging you to explore your opportunities and do not rush anything...with this man or anyone else friend...good luck to you!!!
2006-12-19 11:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask his wife..... I'm sure she'll know what to tell you. Look little girl, there are enough single guys out there.... have you also thought that perhaps he is being nice because he is just a nice person and doesn't really have a thing for you. Stop listening to your little HS girl friends...they are only encouraging you because they know what you want.... And yes 16 will put him in prison and he wil lose his job. 18 will cause him to lose his marriage, but you better be sure of his feeling before you put your emotions on the table.
I recommend finding someone else...crushes rarely work out.
2006-12-19 11:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋
You are going to get yourself in a whole lot of hot water if you pursue this plan, not to mention possibly ruin his career and marriage. Why on earth would you want to do this?
2006-12-19 11:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you know its wrong why are you even asking, don't do it, if you really want to though wait till you are out of college and don't do if he is still married, if hes divorced and you think you and him "where meant to be" then do it, and if anything happens between you i'm sure he'll write college term papers for you (and even more if you are hot...)
2006-12-19 11:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by foooooood 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's married and a teacher! Leave him alone! Aren't there enough 16 year old boys for you?
2006-12-19 11:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by citrusy 6 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Follow him home, make sure wife is not there, show him your rack, then tell him that its your birthday, and you want him for your present!!!
2006-12-19 11:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋