He always calls me a geek! And gets mad quite often at me or at least acts like it! And tells me to make him a sandwitch! And tells me to go shopping with him! And I DON'T WANT TO!!!!!!!! He is at my house for Christmas! And will be here for two weeks! And He is driving me crazy even though this is his first day here! HELP ME!
I'm 9..............
2006-12-19 11:46:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
watch out for him and I would say that you should tell both your parents hoe you feel and you do not feel comfortable around him. They then should have a talk with your uncle. I would refuse to go anywhere with him, let him get mad, please tell your parents.....
2006-12-19 11:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are supposed to respect your elders. Why don't you try being friendly with him and act like you're interested in him. Ask him why he's getting old? Is his hair falling out yet? Does he have dentures? Does he have any friends? Does he remember the Alamo? What is it like to be so old? Do you belong to AARP?Ask him what kind of grades he got in school and why he doesn't have a good job like the rest of the grown-ups. Does he get Senior Citizen discounts? These little things could really tick him off but if you ask nicely then it might seem like you're sincere. So go put your 9 years of experience to work and drive the man crazy. Maybe then he'll leave you alone.
2006-12-19 19:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by JENNY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jayme,
I know it is very annoying to have your Uncle want to do so much with him, but he is only around for 2 weeks. About the shopping thing...go with him. How often do you get to see him? Maybe you could talk with your mom or dad about how it makes you feel (not just that he is driving you crazy) when he calls you names, gets upset with you and tells you to make him a sandwich. Maybe whom ever you tell can talk with your Uncle and it will make for a better two weeks. Just remember that it is only a short amount of time and in the future you may not see him as much.
2006-12-19 19:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by earth_angel_589 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family members can be a pain. Talk to your parents about the way your uncle is treating you. Tell them that you don't want to spend time with him without them there. If they just brush you off, then try to spend time at a friend's house when your parents aren't home but your uncle is. Don't go anywhere with him if you don't want to. He can't force you. If the situation gets out of control (such as physical abuse) then immediately get out of the house and go to a trusted friend's place. You may also want to talk to an adult that you trust like a teacher or a friend's parent.
Good luck, little lady.
2006-12-19 19:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bunni18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really bothering you talk to your parents otherwise he is family and he will only be there for 2 weeks. just remember you'll always have your family. He may not know any other way to show you that he cares. Picking on you may be the only way he knows how to express himself. When I was a kid everyone called me smelly shelly. I hated it!! But I think everyone has forgetten about it.I can't remember the last time I heard it. Just think when you get older you can look back and laugh about it. Hang in there everything will be fine. Just try to ignore it.
2006-12-19 20:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only advice to you dear is to speak to your parents and explain your complaints to them. Your uncle needs to stop picking on you and mention that to your parents as well that he is picking on you. Good luck with your uncle. Another suggestion is to tell your uncle that you are not a slave and to get his own sandwich! If your uncle is creeping you out then there is a bigger problem and that also should be mentioned to your parents. Have a happy holiday despite your unwelcomed guest.....
2006-12-19 19:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and say that this is really bothering you. Get out of the room if he is there. Do not take what he said personally, if he is older then u then he is just a complete idiot.
Good luck
2006-12-19 19:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically walk up to him and explain how you feel about the situation you are in and then he might understand your feelings. But be careful how you say things because it might have an effect on the Christmas holiday so good luck.
2006-12-19 19:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by WILDDOG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol....well just tell him that you dont want to go and make some plans with your friends and say that you have to go to their house for a sleepover.....try to make as many excuses as you can....say that your arm hurts and if he calls you a geek then dont take it seriously....laugh it out and maybe he'll quit....say if you call me a geek one more time then im not going shopping with you....very simple....just annoy him....have fun!!!!
2006-12-19 19:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by supriya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a really bad sandwich,, and the next time he calls you a geek, look at him and smile then say gee i really expected more from an older guy, i thought they would be more mature by your age but i guess not,,
2006-12-20 11:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋