2006-12-19 11:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, yes, yes. I have dated lots of smart guys who didn't have super good looks, but were physically appealing to me. but let's talk about more important stuff first.
If a guy was a decent converstionalist, polite, but not wimpy, had a good sense of humor, smelled good, I was attracted to him. Work on developing good communication skills, it's of paramount importance. A lot of nerdy guys ARE cute, but they are standoffish. This can be mistaken for disinterest. That's why they get overlooked.
I'm attracted to nonstandard "good" looks. I find well built, muscular guys to be too fat for me usually. I love a tall, lean slender build, (which a lot of nerds have).
And, the best part is, nerdy guys are the horniest I've ever met! Since they may not date that often, they sure do appreciate a woman when they get one. They usually will do anything I ask for in bed.
2006-12-19 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Icky Vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who dates for looks is superficial and unworthy. Cast not pearls before swine!
Women love smart men. Hang in there an be confident. And yes you can be successful in dating. Learn how to be a great date.
2006-12-19 19:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are such big of a brainiac then most likly not. If you balance your social life with school then you might be a hit for the girls. Make sure you don't dress nerdy though. Like baggy(not to baggy) pants then a dress shirt like a polo or a long sleave. I know i spelled thing wrong ignore it.
2006-12-19 19:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by hottierecy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not grotesque, you should do fine. It doesn't hurt to clean up a bit and to establish a look that works for you.
The key ingredient in dating is confidence. Being comfortable with your look is part of that ingredient.
Feel free to make those changes that work for you.
2006-12-19 19:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely. I noticed one thing about women, they like to see confidence. As long as you have confidence and a good grip on things, they will find you attractive. You should be careful and not let your confidence turn into arrogance, that will repel women for sure. In plain english, if you think you're a loser, you're going to look like a loser, and nobody wants that.
2006-12-19 19:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the brain works but yes of course.
2006-12-19 19:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, where have you been??? it is not what a person looks like it is what is inside that really matters, do not settle for someone so shallow, that all they look at is the outside of a person.
what is in our hearts and soul make the person not their outer appearance. god bless you and have a merry christmas !!!
2006-12-19 19:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Colts Fan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there r people out there they may find her/him int resting but there r many people who think they have IT but in some people eyes they mite or mite not so yes they can still be successful in dating . his or her chances in dating is 50/50
2006-12-19 19:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by christine s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they just have to date people who are into more than just looks!
2006-12-19 19:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How a person treats me is more important than looks because all that glitters ain't gold.
2006-12-19 19:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋