We have been 2gether about 2yrs now!! Well It seems like I have to do everything. I have to call, he dosen't just call me. I call and call him & he finally answers, then he has nothing 2 talk about!! I do this b/c I barely see him, we live about 2hrs away & I see him on the weekends. It seem like he dosen;t want 2 b with me but I don't know. He says that he does but I think that he just dosen;t want 2 hurt my feelings. I am afraid of losing him I guess. He tells me things like there are plently girls wanting him, I mean I have guys wanting me also but I don;t go bragging about it to his face. I don't what 2 do. He tells me that I am always nagging him. He does things that I don;t like such as go 2 strip clubs, getting text messages, pics 4rm females & shows it 2 me like it is nothing. I have done everything 2make it work but he says that he loves me but he would do things that would straight disrespect me & hurt my feelings. He says that he loves me & want to b with me 4eva!
2006-12-19 10:56:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is the right time for you to move on. He clearly doesn't want to be with you anymore. He doesn't make an effort to stay in contact with you, he flaunts the fact that other girls are interested in him and he is going to strip clubs. He doesn't seem to care about your feelings. Therefore I think it's time to find yourself a guy who is worthy of your attention. You need a guy who respects you and sincerely cares about you.
Good luck!
2006-12-19 11:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. let`s face it. All you have to do is: don`t call him for a couple of days..that will make him miss you. Do anything to keep you busy so you can put up with it. Some guys ( and girls ) like mystery, we get tired of the girls that don`t make it a bit hard, like challenge us. If he is seeing another girl ( I don`t doubt it, beware ) just don`t call him at all. He`ll come back to you, but you gotta play hard ball.
And something else, next time you see him don`t go easy on him either. Make it hard for him to get to you. If you don`t like the places he goes to, dump him before he dumps you!
Read a good book in the meantime!
2006-12-19 19:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by jerry z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may using these other women to see if you are a jealous person, it may be a test. If it happens next time you see him then take a break. Don't call him, leave the ball in his court and see if he takes control. If he does not contact you then he was not a keeper and you deserve better. Never let anyone make you feel inferior to them.
2006-12-19 19:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by miss_blk_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling. He's probably gotten used to you taking all the intiative in the relationship and is starting to take you for granted. Be busy one weekend, and see how he reacts. I'm sure he means what he says to you, but he might be feeling a bit smothered.
2006-12-19 18:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first treat him a friend and a BF at the same time and play with him and when call talk about your day, homework, and persanel stuff. if he just answer then ask him how much he loves you from 100% and then ask him If he want to break up tell him to tell the truth even if it breaks your heart :(
2006-12-19 19:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get! This really works.. they always want something they cant have.. and if he thinks you are pulling away.. he is going to start making the effort thinking that you might be interested in someone else! It will be hard.. but trust me.. make him work for it.
2006-12-19 19:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may *say* that he loves you and wants to "b with you 4eva," but he's probably saying that to get you off his back.
If you "call and call him," then why does he need to call you?
Face it, things are probably over between you and he's hoping that you'll get the hint without him having to say it outright.
2006-12-19 19:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone love u or moe, unless you show you're a good person...
2006-12-19 19:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by googoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not MAKE someone love you MORE...it just happens.
2006-12-19 19:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by rupmsn2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the one....
2006-12-19 18:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by in the know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋