I have this friend whom I known for almost a year. I have feelings for her since october. Should I buy her something? even if it is just a stupid christmas card or something else? And of course not too expensive
2006-12-19 10:50:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would first deal with the relationship issue. Ask her out and see if she truly likes you in the romantic sense. Guys who give girls gifts in order to get love are just kidding themselves and wasting money. Let that not be you, bro. Do what a real man does and ask her out. If she doesn't want to, then don't waste the money or time to get her the gift that her man or mom should be getting her. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you matter and can get any girl out there. Say it three times, pump your self-esteem up, and then get to it. Be realistic and live life intentionally. Put the fantasies aside since they do not pay the bills. You don't want to just "buy her something" and then be known as the "nice guy." You have to mean business. She either wants you or she doesn't it.
I hope that she goes out with you, but don't lose any sleep over it.
Get to it, tiger,
Mr. M on "buy something."
2006-12-19 10:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes personaly as a gurl i think its really sweet when a guy that likes you gets you a christmas card and roses or if you know her favorite flower you should get her a dozen of them that would deffenatly earn major points! Good luck with getting the gurls attention!! ttyl
2006-12-19 19:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by marie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Christmas card would be just great.
2006-12-19 18:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really tricky. Maybe you could get her a cute little kitty cat or some hot chocolate packets. This ought to do it.
2006-12-19 18:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a card and some candy.
2006-12-19 18:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mopargirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to make an impact make your own christmas card
2006-12-19 18:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by flannan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like giving someone a gift then do it
2006-12-19 18:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋