every time my gf and I have a talk about our relationship what is not going right she changes the subject or have a headache
2006-12-19 10:49:22 · 4 answers · asked by Richard e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Richard,
It is called avoidance. I have done it a time or two when I just don't want to talk about a problem anymore. You both have to want to talk about the relationship...not just you. Is the subject worth talking about? You need to pick your battles carefully. Give her a shadow of a doubt anyway. You can drop the subject now, and tell her you are, but it's not going to go away until you both deal with it. Putting off the talk will not make it any better.
If tempers are flaring, let it go until they are not. Otherwise you will both say things you don't mean.
2006-12-19 10:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some exedrin and ask her to focus for a minute.
2006-12-19 18:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cant deal with it or avoids the question.
insecurity.
get another gf
2006-12-19 18:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently she doesn't want to talk about it and is avoiding it
2006-12-19 18:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋