I have written proof that he is cheatin.. I even have her contact information.. Im trying to decide if I should ask her questions or just leaver her out of it.. and confront him?
2006-12-19 10:47:56 · 24 answers · asked by sweetesttiger2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just confront him, leave her out of it. It could get messy. Infact i would walk out straight away. Good luck sorry to here the bad news.
2006-12-19 10:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her in a non-confrontational way to find out whether she knows that he's already in a relationship. If she doesn't know and thinks that he's a jerk, then you should team up and pwn him! If you don't want to do this or she definitely knows that you two are together, then you should just confront him unless she's your good friend. If she's your good friend then you should confront both of them at the same time. Preferably in a compromising position.
2006-12-19 18:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a relationship with her, and she probably knows about you - in my opinion she's already disrespecting you by going after your man. Any confrontation with her will likely not be productive or have any sort of positive outcome. Besides, she's probably heard lots of lies about you and will be defensive the moment you address her.
I'd confront him with consequences. Do you even want a man that does this? I'd be showing him the door and giving him a good hard boot in the a**.
2006-12-19 18:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who provided the written proof? What is the proof? Does the provider have an axe to grind against this woman or you?
For your man to cheat there must be some weakness in your relationship. Look at yourself first before you begin to lay accusations as you may not like the answers you receive.
If you want to keep him suggest counselling instead of attacking - be subtle.
2006-12-19 18:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, UP SHOULD ONLY CONFRONT HIM. LEAVER COMPLETE OUT. THAT WOULD MAKE HE MADE. BECAUSE THIS BETWEEN YOU AND HIM. TELL HIM THAT YOU FOUND OUT AND SHOW HIM ALL OF THE PROOF THAT YOU HAVE. HE IS THINKING HE IS GETTING AWAY WITH ALL THIS. YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE IN THIS CHEATING RELATIONSHIP. JUST DO IT BETWEEN YOU AND HIM. LEAVER HER OUT OF THIS. THIS WAY SHE DOES NOT NOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING OUR SAYING. I HOPE THING WORK OUT FOR YOU. YVONNE
2006-12-19 19:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her out of it - why? because it would only make you look more pathetic.
you should confront your boyfriend with the proof - let him know exactly how you came across the proof and how you FEEL. then leave without ever looking back. once a cheat, always a cheat!
2006-12-19 18:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by arewa247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him first because he was the the one that should have known better, then let her kno what a dog he is. It's only fair to confront both of them but remember to keep your anger at him because he was the one that did you wrong.
2006-12-19 18:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to confront her. He's the one who's breaking his promises to you.
Written proof? That should be interesting.
2006-12-19 18:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him he should of known betta....she's not da 1 cheatin on u just wit him.....
2006-12-19 18:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by It is what it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront her too, but that is me. she might not have known about you! if you think she did know about because of your proof then i would definitely confront her. but it was your man choice to do what he did.
2006-12-19 18:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋