So I've been dating this guy about 5 months and I'm starting to have all these crazy feelings....like I wanna be with him 24/7....if Im not with him I'm thinking about him. When we are intimate its more than just sex and after I feel close to him and sometimes I almost catch myself wanting to say I love you......but I don't bc Im afraid of what the outcome might be. What should I do? I wanna spend more time with him and be with him. Im not even sure what he classifies me as....I can tell he cares about me and likes me but I don't know if he loves me or wants to get more serious.
2006-12-19 10:27:22 · 15 answers · asked by a1980 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let things move on in their natural pace, in my experience sometimes it is better to wait and keep your emotions in check, especially if you are not sure if his love for you is as deep as your is for him.
By nature or by design, men are less talkative about these subjects, if you feel that you cannot wait, why not say something like:
"I think we have something very special, don't you?"
or "I feel so great when we are together, " kind of thing, He is obviously been with you for five months and it seems that he is not seeing anyone else, so good for you, you are in love, enjoy it and I do hope he appreciates what a great girl he has.
Good Luck to you both.
2006-12-19 10:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do decide to wait, there is always another day to tell him. If you don't, he may think you're not as serious as you really are. That would be bad. All in all, a happy ending is much more likely to happen if you tell him. What's the worst he can say? If you've been intimate as you say, he must think something good about you, or he wouldn't stay with you. If he's cautious, he may be thinking the exact same thing about you. I know I would, but that could just be me.
2006-12-19 18:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by jade_falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is about time to be finding out, girl! What are you waiting for? You are sleeping with him...the most intimate human act we have....yet you are afraid to share your feelings. Come now, and have a chat with your guy. If you don't give him some guidelines and boundaries for your relationship, it'll get off track before it even gets going. You have to be direct, tell him what you want, ask him what he wants, and work to that end. Don't just assume something or another is happening, becuase most times our assumptions are way, way wrong. Find out and take action!
2006-12-19 18:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try waiting for him to make the calls and the dates. What kinds of dates is he suggesting? Hanging out in bed or is there a variety? Like meeting his family? Hanging with his friends? Is he selfish in bed or does he make sure you finish? Do you fake it? Make sure that he is just as interested in you as you are in him.
Good luck, you deserve a good man.
2006-12-19 18:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey , If that is how you feel, tell him. What is the worst that could happen. He dumps you. Well it is not the end of the world and if he did you deserved better anyway, it's his loss. Good luck
2006-12-19 18:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by ondike05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell him how you feel, you never no what will happen. If he really cares about you, i think things will go great!
Good Luck!
2006-12-19 18:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my honey and he looked at me and said "Oh thank God I love you too! I was just afraid you would not feel the same way" see you never know until you try!
2006-12-19 18:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Needingsomeadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,
I would tell him. Set the mood. Do you think he feels the same way?
2006-12-19 18:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by ppv918 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww...tell him but be ready for anything. theres a 50/50 chance hell say "i love u too". Good Luck!!
2006-12-19 18:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is easier if you say it in writting, like a letter, email, myspace, something like that, is easier for him to say it back, and he went feel to presured by it.
2006-12-19 18:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Moctezuma_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋