nothing i do helps. christmas gifts. birthday gifts. could it be i am a diagnosed boderline bpd and cannot say or do anything to help?
2006-12-19 10:26:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well I think you should talk to her instead of buying her things she probably does not need and what really needs is the support
of her mother. Remember to tell her how much you love her..
2006-12-19 10:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by chichi 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to talk to a psychologist, they are professionals and are less likely to give you advice that will make things worse than someone on the internet who doesnt know you.
There are a million possibilities for why your daughter does not talk to you. You need to consult with a professional in detail so they can get familiar with your specific situations.
Borderline might have something to do with it, and since you have a disorder it is important to know your weak areas so you can work on them in order to have a satisfying life.
If you have seen a professional in the past but did not like them, try somebody else because there are some great pro's out there who know borderline and relationships and can help in huge ways, but there are also bad ones who do not help.
2006-12-19 18:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by trainer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you refer to her as "my daughter the lesbian." Try "my daughter Lucy" or whatever her name is. Or "my daughter," and tell us more of the story.
You are not focusing on the big picture. Try writing her a letter. You need to realize there is more to her than she is a lesbian.
I think something bad must have happened between you and her, possibly regarding her sexual preference. You need to mend your relationship, and gifts will not fix it. What she needs from you is not available in stores.
Good luck
2006-12-19 18:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Together 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's understandable when I hear you say "my daughter the lesbian"..... you're not telling us about WHY, but with those words I get an idea.
2006-12-19 20:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"My Daughter, The Lesbian" by foggy j. That might have something to do with it.
2006-12-19 18:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by sonyack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you refer to her as "my daughter, the lesbian."
2006-12-19 20:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you cannot seem to get past her sexual preference. She is your kid for God's sake! love her for who she is not for who she chooses to sleep with!
2006-12-19 19:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by nunciata22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's your daughter and you should love her and accept her no matter what her sexual preference is.
2006-12-19 18:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by blackjack 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋